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I'm confused
My vibe had been up and I was attracting thing, I was extremely excited and happy about life. Now, my love told me he doesn't even want to be friends with me, he just doesn't want us to be in each other's lives at all anymore. Things got worse and now I'm confused because I had been feeling SO good. I would say it was a result of past thoughts but even my past thoughts weren't too negative that I would expect him to just not want me in his life. I'm trying to not let this get to me because I do believe in the law of attraction I am just very confused. Please help.
- Dan2015
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Re: I'm confused
I wouldn't put too much attention on it, live your life/stay happy and I bet he'll come back... it's just a little hiccup nothing serious, it's like if you were driving somewhere, and there was construction, so you had to take a detour.. it's not an ideal situation, but in the end you still got to where you wanted to go/be
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Re: I'm confused
Many people will have slightly different takes on what this 'means' in terms of your journey with LOA and you will most likely choose to pick the opinions that fit into what you want it to mean which is fine, however, one thing about LOA is that when you start alligning into becoming your authentic and true self, people will both come into your life and also exit. This is because as you start vibrating 'I'm me and I'm happy to be me and I'm hopeful for my future', some people will get repulsed because you're becoming something they don't like. Sometimes we want people to be a certain way in our lives so much so that if they start branching out and changing, we don't like it, and try to change them back or become mean to them. Like when people say that they lose friends after school because they become more interested in hobbies and things that they're friends don't and their friends become intimidated by this growth and alienate them. Your person is seeing you grow and become a happy person without him as your boyfriend and he's intimidated by this. His ego has most likely been bruised that you aren't just surviving but thriving without him. This is actually ok and normal, exs do this all the time when they get jealous. They see you doing just fine and they want to derail that, just to see if they have any power over you anymore. Don't let this upset you or he will know that he does have power to derail you and he will lose respect and attraction for you. Just sit tight, remain respectful to him and respect his wishes but let him know the door is still open for communication. Give it time and keep going ! 
'What We Think, We Become' -Buddha
- Dan2015
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Re: I'm confused
ShootingStar wrote:
Many people will have slightly different takes on what this 'means' in terms of your journey with LOA and you will most likely choose to pick the opinions that fit into what you want it to mean which is fine, however, one thing about LOA is that when you start alligning into becoming your authentic and true self, people will both come into your life and also exit. This is because as you start vibrating 'I'm me and I'm happy to be me and I'm hopeful for my future', some people will get repulsed because you're becoming something they don't like. Sometimes we want people to be a certain way in our lives so much so that if they start branching out and changing, we don't like it, and try to change them back or become mean to them. Like when people say that they lose friends after school because they become more interested in hobbies and things that they're friends don't and their friends become intimidated by this growth and alienate them. Your person is seeing you grow and become a happy person without him as your boyfriend and he's intimidated by this. His ego has most likely been bruised that you aren't just surviving but thriving without him. This is actually ok and normal, exs do this all the time when they get jealous. They see you doing just fine and they want to derail that, just to see if they have any power over you anymore. Don't let this upset you or he will know that he does have power to derail you and he will lose respect and attraction for you. Just sit tight, remain respectful to him and respect his wishes but let him know the door is still open for communication. Give it time and keep going !
Yup... This is very true... and I notice... even those people that exist... MOST of them come back at some point
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com