I don't want to be rude.   Or give "tough love".    But some people really need to get it together, I'm not even talking about people only on this forum.  But in general

So many people get into loa.  Only to get their loves back.   And when one thing goes wrong, they give up.       A lot of you have fake belief.   Fake confidence.  Fake "being happy".    I know it's hard.   And very easy to 2nd gues yourself, trust me.   I've been there.        But if you're gonna be successful.   You need to have unconditional faith,confidence, etc.    I mean, what do you have to lose?   You're already not with the person you want to be with

It can only get better from there,  one thing a lot of you need to do.   Is love and be happy with yourselves.   I know a lot of you will say. "I do love myself. I am happy with myself".     But you really aren't, once you truly love yourself.   You won't need another human to love you or make you happy.   Having that person will just be the icing on the cake

But so many people.  Are fake happy/confident.  And don't truly believe.  Then they wonder why things don't go their way.    Also.  Don't let little bumps throw you off