UnicornsAndJizz wrote:

Hi Hisoneandonly, I still get from your posts that you are focusing only on negative things. And because of that the Universe gives you more of negative things. 
To me it seems that you have soooooooo much to be grateful for. You are at least in some kind of relationship with your loved one. You get to communicate with him, he initates contact with you. These are things I've been trying to manifest for a year. You have it!! 
Now you have to get yourself together and focus on things that you are happy about. Visualize about him being soooo lovely and nice to you.


About his your situation and his reaction- It's obvious that he don't want to lose you and probably is right now insecure himself. But I don't think you should let him rant about things that some mysterious friends said. I call it BS. If he had some real info you had done something, he would have said it.
If I were you I would say to him that this kind of behaviour is not acceptable and then didn't contact him until he remembers how to treat ladies. At the meantime you can visualize about your perfect relationship and him as perfect Prince Charming.


I don't know, maybe my advice is too harsh but I was reallllllllly suprised and shocked about how you let him treat you......

Hi unicorn , thanks for your advice. And no, your advice aren't harsh at all and I can accept it. Well, the next day, he treated me nicely like telling me what's he doing, he wanted to videocall me. But at the late night, I waited for him. He was with some friends... but I keep on nagging him to reply. He got frustrated and want to give up on us again. Then he said he's tired, he don't wanna talk to me, and ask me to find him the next day. Idk what is really wrong. It goes on and off, like good and then suddenly goes bad. Argh. What should I do with this. Ldr isn't easy.
 

You need to find some self love. People will only treat you the way you expect them to. It comes down to how you feel about yourself, so I really think you need to work on that first.

Last edited by Cherished (9/28/2015 9:08 pm)

Take a step back. You have to be ok all by yourself first! You can't rely on another person to make you stable. Perhaps you need to take a break from him and clear your thoughts. Do things just for you. Relax, exercise, meditate.. But above all you have to understand that you're coming across way too needy, and it's not going to help your relationship. You need to gather your strength and realise that you can be perfectly fine ON YOUR OWN for a while. Then when you are happy, you will attract a happy relationship with a happy partner. There's loads of books and threads and articles and YouTube videos on self live. If be focussing entirely on that for now xx

You need to read what you're writing!  What you are saying and thinking is what you are creating.  So many people have told you this..  Do you understand that thoughts become things?

Yes cherished, I do understand that thoughts become reality, I'm trying so hard to shift my negative to positive. But I'm on my way.. please give me some more time. I'll try.