exquisite wrote:

I don't know how to feel or how to view this?

What do you think would be the best option from a LoA point of view?

One of the most important things about LoA is that what you do makes you feel better than you felt before. If you feel like giving up, the process of attracting him doesn't feel good to you, right? So, you have two options here. Either you search for a way to feel better about the process or you really give up. The benefit of giving up on the specifics (you can't give up on your core desire of a happy relationship) is that it is much easier to feel good about a new relationship than find good feelings about the old one. So, if you feel bad most of the time, because of your guy, go general, at least for a while. What is it what you like about him? What don't you like so much about him and what would you prefer in a partner? After a while, you will feel better and when you reached this better feeling place, it will be easier to have positive feelings towards your specific guy.
If you insist to work on him right here and now, then you have to relax. Does facebook really matter? Is it really important why he deleted you? Is it really worth pondering about? By focusing on it, by writing about it, you attract more of it. What makes you feel bad isn't that he deleted you, but your thoughts about it. You have to find thoughts about it that feel better to you. "He deleted me off facebook. That's it, I give up. We will never be in contact again. I really hate that thought. He is such an idiot, why did he do that? That's not fair. It was his fault that the relationship failed. I really had loved to have a chance with him. Why does it take so long? Maybe I waste my time? I'm really tired of working hard to attract him. But I think I can feel okay with this situation for now. I don't have any option to change it NOW, so it's okay. Maybe, if I loosen my mental grip on him I give him the chance to come back to me on his own some day. Yes, I know that my experience is just a reflection of my old thoughts, so it has no relevance for me now! I can choose the way I want to feel right now, regardless of the circumstances. I can feel good now. And I know that he will come to me, when I feel good." Something like this.

wolf wrote:

Honestly, this is exactly what it is.
The self-reinforcing mechanism of your belief system.

You present to yourself the same set of circumstances,
after you've actually changed your state of being/vibrational offering,
to see if you have truly changed.
So what you saw was an echo of what once was,
which you now presented to yourself to see if you had changed,
you had a knee-jerk-reaction and therefore had not changed,
so the true reflection cannot be reflected back to you until you change your vibrational offering,
which means you feel better, you get to feeling the best you could.
Once you get there, you will most likely have another manifestation regarding him
and now it will either appear like you want it or it will appear the same again,
so that you would have a chance to see if you NOW respond differently.
Unless you respond differently for once, it will keep on repeating the same thing to you over and over.
I think that's why for a lot of people, getting their new set of circumstances
takes some time, because you sort of "fail" your own "test" a couple times
before you realise what you're doing.

Life experience really is kind of like a game.
This is like you're trying to get through a level but you keep on making that one move 
that gets you "killed" and back into the beginning of the level.
So you try again, you get to the same boss fight (circumstances appearing the same) again,
and unless you do that one screwy move again that got you "killed"
(have a knee-jerk-reaction where you fall to the pit of despair thinking that you've failed), 
you pass the boss this time, and you will therefore have a new level that looks different.

Thank you! I never thought about this from this perspective, looking back, I do feel like I was tested again because about a month ago something similar happened. Now thinking about it, I'm not too sad about the situation and it's just the "why" and the future "hows" that get to me, which I know shouldn't, because he's moving across the country and I saw facebook as our way of communication (assuming that he would initiate the convo eventually) 

wolf wrote:

exquisite wrote:

wolf wrote:

Honestly, this is exactly what it is.
The self-reinforcing mechanism of your belief system.

You present to yourself the same set of circumstances,
after you've actually changed your state of being/vibrational offering,
to see if you have truly changed.
So what you saw was an echo of what once was,
which you now presented to yourself to see if you had changed,
you had a knee-jerk-reaction and therefore had not changed,
so the true reflection cannot be reflected back to you until you change your vibrational offering,
which means you feel better, you get to feeling the best you could.
Once you get there, you will most likely have another manifestation regarding him
and now it will either appear like you want it or it will appear the same again,
so that you would have a chance to see if you NOW respond differently.
Unless you respond differently for once, it will keep on repeating the same thing to you over and over.
I think that's why for a lot of people, getting their new set of circumstances
takes some time, because you sort of "fail" your own "test" a couple times
before you realise what you're doing.

Life experience really is kind of like a game.
This is like you're trying to get through a level but you keep on making that one move 
that gets you "killed" and back into the beginning of the level.
So you try again, you get to the same boss fight (circumstances appearing the same) again,
and unless you do that one screwy move again that got you "killed"
(have a knee-jerk-reaction where you fall to the pit of despair thinking that you've failed), 
you pass the boss this time, and you will therefore have a new level that looks different.

Thank you! I never thought about this from this perspective, looking back, I do feel like I was tested again because about a month ago something similar happened. Now thinking about it, I'm not too sad about the situation and it's just the "why" and the future "hows" that get to me, which I know shouldn't, because he's moving across the country and I saw facebook as our way of communication (assuming that he would initiate the convo eventually) 

The universe sees and knows more ways to your conversations than you can probably imagine.
What you have to do is get your eyes on what feels good to you, in every moment you are in.
And if you can't do that, take a nap, when you wake up, look for a reason to feel good.
Can't find it? Take another nap.
Soon you'll find it anyway.
That's the key to everything you want.

Thank you so much Wolf! I'll stay positive even though he's moving states, I'm going to take a break of LoA for a couple of days until I get myself to a better and higher vibration because truth to be told, I'm feeling kinda hurt by this, esp. since I thought of him as a different person.