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Hi everyone, I recently found this forum via google and loved reading all the success stories. I'm so glad this exists since reading other people's success has helped me keep a positive frame of mind and focus on being my best.
The question I have is whether anyone has any success stories of getting an ex after a very long period of time... I am speaking years here. A large majority of the stories I read is "he contacted me after 3 months apart". All couples I know had broken up at some point and got back together, so it's really not surprising that taking a break for a few months clears a person's thoughts and they start to miss their SO. The stories taper off after a longer period of time... so either people don't get back together and/or give up/move on. What I really want to hear is whether someone after YEARS reconciled with their interests.Β
Thanks!
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I know a girl that knows a girl that got back together with his bf two times. One time, it took them two years to get back together. I don't know that girl personally, so I can't say, if she knows anything about LoA. I doubt it. But yes, of course, their are people who get back together after years.
The question I find more interesting is why do you need such stories? How do they help in your particular situation? Even if no one ever had accomplished it, does that mean that you can't do it? It's the same the other way around. Only because others did it doesn't mean you can do it, too. It's not that your situation is any different, but you have to be able to line up with it and that's what most people can't manage to do.
Don't search in your reality for proof - it's just a reflection of yourself anyway. Maybe it makes you feel better for a short time, but it doesn't help you in the long-run. Like Abe says: Words don't teach, only life experience does.
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Exactly what Sanshi says. You don't need proof really, you just need to decide that you want something. I can however answer and say I know a couple (an ex of mine and his ex before me) who got back together after about 3-4 years apart and there are definitely people in the world who have gotten back together with their teenage sweethearts after a long time. What really matters is that you can line up with the desire and let it in. Inspired action usually comes after you line up too. The person I'm attracting back is someone I haven't been with for a year. Sometimes I look on time as a helper, it removes the bad memories and allows people to mature. I met up with an ex of mine earlier this year who I haven't been with for 6 years and I felt the old attraction come up again and even kissed him but then he decided not to follow it up (I had dumped him). Sometimes people think that too much time has passed and they've moved on, I believe that this only happens when time has passed and the people themselves change and no longer have the same taste as they did or that the bond they had with that person wasn't as strong as they believed it to be. I believe that true love never dies, but false love does.Β
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Thank you both for your responses. I am looking for success stories to give me some support...Β
There is an ex that I still think I could be very happy with and it has been a long time since we spoke and he has moved to the other side of the country. Even though I saw him earlier in the year while on a business trip, the connection is still there and I let him know I am still interested, so far, months have gone by with nothing. Β So while I can easily imagine us together and have this carefree and relaxed feeling about everything working out for the best, the logical part of me kicks in and says "this is crazy... you are 30+ years old and your dating strategy is someone who hasn't shown interest in your in a very long time AND lives half way across the country".
I am more than open to someone else if that person presents themselves, I just have no interest in going out of my way to try to actively meet people to date them (everyone where I live is on Tinder/OKCupid) mostly because of this feeling that everything will somehow work out. So I look for success stories of people that would logically should have never gotten back together in order to give my logical self another view of reality.Β
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ShootingStar wrote:
Sometimes people think that too much time has passed and they've moved on, I believe that this only happens when time has passed and the people themselves change and no longer have the same taste as they did or that the bond they had with that person wasn't as strong as they believed it to be. Β
From loa point of view everything is vibrations, everything is energy. There is nothing like bond or something it's just how vibrationally you matching with other person.
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redgreenyellow wrote:
"this is crazy... you are 30+ years old and your dating strategy is someone who hasn't shown interest in your in a very long time AND lives half way across the country".
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LoA is not about logic. Have you in all this years ever set the intention that he shows interest in you again? I doubt it. Sometimes, just an intention can be a powerful thing. Stop all the reasoning and try a new path. You won't find out that it is just wishful thinking, I promise. That doesn't mean that you will have success immediately. Some people need years to REALLY get it (that doesn't mean you will need so much time). But if you are ready to take the advice and do it, you will feel sooo much better and you will enjoy seing magic all around you (again). If you can really open up to this, you won't be disappointed in the end.
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I had an ex come back after 9 years. Tracked me down on Facebook literally right after I created the account. We were living on different islands at that time. He claimed to still be madly in love me. I really didn't give two kicks. So I blocked him from being able to see my account.
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Hello there! I've encountered something like this before. It took me a lot of months before I got to speak with my ex again. During those days I felt really lost but I gradually learned to be preoccupied and get myself back together and after that I became more confident with myself. While fixing my innersef I also got advise on how to manifest the Loa and neglect all limiting beliefs / negative thoughts. These subliminals gave me advise that I wasn't able to realize from other people. Try it if you want to
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