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It got worse. I'm lost.
Hi,
So I know i attracted this but how do I get over this. I'm losing hope and am just lost.
We have been broken up for 7 months. Just right now, he texted me telling me to never hit him up again and he blocked me off of Twitter. He was so angry. He has moved on. He is a whole new person. Not the same person I fell in love with.
How do i fix this? I was so positive and happy and now I've lost that. Is he just not the one for me? Will the guy I love so much come back? Do I move on and just forget about him?
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Re: It got worse. I'm lost.
Hello dear sk721, from what I've experienced, the best thing you can do is to concentrate ONLY on yourself, your dreams, your aims, your well-being, etc. Take some or a lot of time to really know yourself, your worth and your precious soul. Only knowing and loving your beautiful self will bring you what you asked for. The Universe is here for you, but first YOU have to be there for yourself. Just drop this altogether and focus on something else. Just know that what you want is coming, it is coming, you only have to drop every doubt about the situation and yourself.
I hope this makes sense to you!
"The world is yourself pushed out. Ask yourself what you want and then give it to yourself! Do not question how it will come about; just go your way, knowing that the evidence of what you have done must appear, and it will."
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Re: It got worse. I'm lost.
You say you were positive and happy. But how could something like this happen then? Are you sure that you had no resistance going on? Are you sure that you were truly happy and not the kind of "I have to be happy to get him back" happy? The goal to reach is unconditional happiness and because it's unconditional, the action of others can't influence it at all. But your post sounds really desperate and you can't go from happy to desperate. So chances are that you weren't really happy in the first place.
I have to be honest with you. Using LoA to get an ex back is one of the hardest things to do, because so much emotions are involved. For people who have never worked with LoA before, it is nearly impossible to make it work, because they don't even understand the basics on a deeper level and they have no trust in their ability to create. It's a little like giving a kid, who just has learned reading, Shakespeare to read. So, I came to the conclusion after being into this ex back thing for 10 months now that it would be beneficial for most of the people to move on. It's so much easier to attract someone new. I don't say you should do that. That's your decision and you are the only one who can feel your feelings, so no one can tell you what the best decision for you is. I think, if you could make your main goal to be happy no matter what and not doing it to get the guy, then you would get the guy and in the shape and form you want him.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: It got worse. I'm lost.
Thank you! You guys are right. I'm a very emotional person and sometimes let my emotions get the worst of me. I'll read more into LOA.
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wolf wrote:
Thank you! You guys are right. I'm a very emotional person and sometimes let my emotions get the worst of me. I'll read more into LOA.
Usually what people mean when they say they are very emotional
is that they don't know how to manage their vibrational offering
and they observe a lot and therefore their emotions are "all over the place".
If you are emotional, it is an indicator, too, that you are not in alignment with your broader perspective.
May I suggest "Ask and It Is Given" for you to read?
I have been suggesting it a lot lately to many on the forum
because it answers so many common questions people have.
Read it for the purpose of understanding how universal laws work,
it erases a lot of questions and you begin to put the pieces together,
which allows you to feel more at peace.
Yes that's what it is. Thank you I will definitely read it!
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Re: It got worse. I'm lost.
Ask and it is given is great, because it doesn't only provide the theory, but gives you techniques to practice every day.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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