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Help with a new guy please
This isn't about my ex lol.... So I have been seeing and hooking up with this guy for the past month and last week he was practically worshipping me but now that I finally started liking him a lot, he has been very distant and strange. Like towards the end of last week he canceled on me twice and has been very short with me and no longer iniates text or convo with me. So yesterday I asked him if we were gonna hang again because it seems like he wasnt interested anymore and he said " i feel like youre the one who isnt interested anymore" and i told him that i really liked him and he was like "it doesnt seem like it." and pretty much just brushed off the conversation....so today i texted him saying "I hope you have a good day" and he ignored it but usually answers me...I'm really confused..... so the question remains....
should I now go into no contact?
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Ok I have decided to go no contact
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Thread Starter- Talala
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I HAD to register to tell you, that is not a good idea.
It may be hard to see, but some people have trouble seeing how much one can be "into them". He's likely being sincere. I know you can't tell but give him the benefit of the doubt. He's just scared...
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Talala wrote:
I HAD to register to tell you, that is not a good idea.
It may be hard to see, but some people have trouble seeing how much one can be "into them". He's likely being sincere. I know you can't tell but give him the benefit of the doubt. He's just scared...
Thank you sweetheart,I really appreciate you doing that 
but I'm just a bit confused cause last night I snapchatted him again telling him how I feel and that I'll back off cause it seems like he's not interested anymore and he said he was but he was just really confused, I dont understand this guy lol
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Thread Starter- Talala
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I HAD to register to tell you, that is not a good idea.
It may be hard to see, but some people have trouble seeing how much one can be "into them". He's likely being sincere. I know you can't tell but give him the benefit of the doubt. He's just scared...Thank you sweetheart,I really appreciate you doing that
You're welcome
Do you see how he is backing off? I think it's the same thing you're doing. He's probably backing off because he thinks you're not interested... just as you're deciding to back off now.
I'd message him saying, "Hi. I'm really sorry you don't think I'm interested. I definitely could show it better, and I intend to do just that if you were to give me that chance. I really, really like you and I'd really like to see where this goes. Anyway, If you want me to leave you alone, I will. But please know I am very interested!"
Or something along those lines
People spend too much time playing games, pulling back instead of just saying what they're feeling
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Re: Help with a new guy please
I HAD to register to tell you, that is not a good idea.
It may be hard to see, but some people have trouble seeing how much one can be "into them". He's likely being sincere. I know you can't tell but give him the benefit of the doubt. He's just scared...Thank you sweetheart,I really appreciate you doing that
You're welcome
Do you see how he is backing off? I think it's the same thing you're doing. He's probably backing off because he thinks you're not interested... just as you're deciding to back off now.
I'd message him saying, "Hi. I'm really sorry you don't think I'm interested. I definitely could show it better, and I intend to do just that if you were to give me that chance. I really, really like you and I'd really like to see where this goes. Anyway, If you want me to leave you alone, I will. But please know I am very interested!
Or something along those lines
People spend too much time playing games, pulling back instead of just saying what they're feeling
Thankyou!! I appreciate your help!! And i know I'm sick of mind games, I like when people are upfront with me
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