So i can just spend time getting to know him and just enjoy the time without committing anything to him other than polite friendship..maybe because people talk badly of him could be he did this in his past and try not to judge him bc people can change for the better...perhaps your right sanshi..i will think only in good terms and only go out if it feels good..

thanks again!

something just tells me that if my ex hears about this i will receive a very angry text...i can always not react to it like you say and just create and not be a reactor..