So you aren't even sure, if you want him back or not? If that's the case, I would take some time to heal and go for a new guy. Attracting a person back is one of the hardest things to do with LoA and it can be extremely draining. Chances are that you only prolong your suffering. In my opinion, you have to heal to attract someone back anyway. So maybe take the time to heal and think again, if you want him back or not.

I'm happy it helped. It was not quite the answer most people want to hear, but I think it's a good sign that you are open to it.

Everything will become clearer with time. You will see his actions in a different light und you will feel different about him. It may be that you decide to attract him back or that you see that he is just an idiot who isn't worth it. I personally believe that you can change a person or rather the way they see you and interact with you. And I think that every person just react to your vibration, but that doesn't mean that it's easy to change the patterns you have going on for a while now. In most cases, it's better to learn your lesson and concentrate on you, so that you can heal quickly. I know that it takes time to get over all those emotions, but when you are at the point that you can say you are over the breakup (and you decide you don't want him anymore) you can do something that's very fun. You can start to think about all the things you didn't like about this guy. Like Abraham says: when you know what you don't want, you know what you do want. And now you can attract a guy who has all the good qualities of your ex and the opposite of your ex's bad ones. So you can create a 2.0 version of your ex. That's so much fun.