brianslady wrote:

thank you Universal Student.  Do you understand why things like this happen?  Sometimes I think they are past issues that I never addressed in the state I am now and that maybe its a way of showing myself that I am not a victim I am a fighter for the right things and not be abused by abusive people anymore.  It is said though that we attract these things.  But I feel that I am very focused especially in a good way for my life with Brian.  Than I think that the universe is letting me cut these situations off and get them over and done with so I can be perfected in all kinds of good ways especially things that I have been weak in

You might have subconscious doubts and fears...it can be a number of reasons. Maybe your past fears and doubts are finally manifesting itself now and while they are manifesting you have the power and knowledge to overcome it. You know what needs to be done to get the desired results you truly want.

IT HAPPENED!!!!!!
He texted me today.  Said he found a job for me.  I said really.  I asked about it.  It said.  Looking for a couple to run this type of business.  House included in the businesses, good $ income and only work til noon.  He asked me if I would like to go. 
This is so freaking amazing.  We went to no talking at all.  We are over just the end of April.  I believed it was a lost cause.  Then I changed my thoughts.  Sought after a help and found Veronica's videos.  I have listened to them for weeks.  Bought all her books and have almost read them all.  I am on the 20th day on the 25 day challenge.  I have this fantastic job that I totally love.  I have taken care of me.  lost 4 clothing sizes in 2 months from exercise 3 times a week and eating right, drinking lots of water.  I love my life.  I take care of my car, my dogs and most especially my son.  Past week I literally was at the thought process of letting it go with him.  He did not show up at his moms last friday, but I kept my heart going focusing on the good and that we totally love each other.  Saturday he texted me asking about my visit with his mom.  I told him it was so much fun.  He didn't respond.  Sunday I texted asking if he was ok.  He was being himself in being silly about me loving hanging with his mom.  I told him how she told me about how much his dad loved his mom.  That years ago when they were dating.  He did not have a car.  That he walked miles up hill both way in the rain and snow to see her.  That is how much he loved her.  I left it at that and stayed away.  I kept hearing Veronica say.  If you love him don't contact him.  Let him heal.  Each time he would message and I d message back.  I would leave it at that.  Letting him hang on.  I am still letting him hang on. 
See I am this gorgeous amazing woman.  He knows it.  We are incredible together.  He knows that.  I am an energy force that he has never ever encountered.  I know I totally rock his world. 
So we submitted an application for the job.  We will see.  But his words were.  I am so wanting a change and a change with me and my boy. 
So see
Love heals all. 
Law of Attraction loves love. 
It is the most powerful way to manifest what you desire. 
Now I need to go and pray and thank Heavenly Father for all he has given me especially all of you wishing me well. 
God bless and may all your dreams come true. 
 

Hi Brianslady, every situation is so individual here that one answer doesn't necessarily fit all.  So, if you feel you're in a good place and it seems appropriate to say/do things, then go ahead, but you just have to question where its coming from and if it's appropriate according to the general vibe between you two.  For me, I had to really feel like a vibrational shift had occurred before taking certain outward action.

Well things are really moving.  I am going home for my hs reunion.  I told Brian and he texted me 3 times that day saying that he thought I would not come back.  I reassured him that the only reason I am here is because of him and my honorary mom.  I let him know I have not wanted or been with anyone else.  That I dream of him.  Funny I was shopping yesterday and told him where I was.  He surprised me and showed up. 
I have only seen him 2 times since April.  He looks so good.  I was so nervous.  I leave Wednesday.  He wishes he was going.  I am telling God several times a day I love him and he loves me. 
Its working. 
Living as if

Though I do believe as you two do that we are all unique.  I am simple and think in that way too.  Life is already complex enough.  I cannot over analyze what is happening all I can do is do what is right by me.  Live happily and all will follow.  That is what has been happening.  Patience is something I have been learning about and this is the thing.  I love him and I know he loves me.  I am leaving this morning to travel across the country without him and he is so down.  There is no talking to him.  So all I am doing is sending my love to him in prayers and thanks that he is the love of my life and when he is ready to do what he needs to do.  We will reunite in all the right ways and for all the right reasons.  See the other day he showed up and surprised me.  He looked wonderful.  I was so nervous but see I am in love with me and I am confident in who I am.  He knows he has work to do on himself and he is being wise to stay away til he is confident and ready to be with me and my son.  I will give him that especially because that is just how much my son and I love him.  Be blessed you all.