Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum » giving up hope

esty83 · 7/31/2016 4:16 pm

I haven't heard from my ex since April when he basically said we were over. THe really strange part is for the last month I have encountered two of his friends in religious lectures that I attend. Not sure if thats just the way things are progressing until he pops into my life but all of my friends are married and buying houses and having kids. And I love my ex. I keep thinking about how cruel he was to me towards the end of our relationship. Im trying to let the past go and forgive him but i keep thinking about how i deserve the man i once met who cared about me and my feelings and wanted to spend time wtih me. I miss him like crazy and just don't know what to do. I manifested a better paying job. Took a while but got it now trying to manifest the ultimate job i have been waiting for. Im waiting for a call for interview 3. But th erecruiter is now following up on my behalf because he knows im a good fit for the role. Trying to loose some more weight to be healthier. Keeping busy otherwise meeting new friends..But my love life is empty. im not meeting quality guys. Im starting to love myself and miss the romance,miss the flowers, miss the holding hands and him just wanting to get to know me. and the guys for whatever reason im attracting negative ones who only want to use me sexually. What is it im projecting/ Any advise?I want my ex back and it to be serious and move forward in a serious manner and i refuse to have sex with any guys because i deserve better treatment... What advise could you give me that will help me not loose faith and hope???Esty

brianslady · 7/31/2016 7:17 pm

Awe Etsy, dont lose hope. wow your post looked just like mine about 2 months ago. You are doing all the right things in my opinion. Just keep doing everything positive. I highly recommend you watch Veronicas videos often. Buy her books and follow her advice. I pray alot also. I like you was looking for my dream job and I got in March. It is wonderful. I too have been working on exercising and getting back in shape. I have dived into life and found happy ways to fill my days with good things. I eat healthy and drink lots of water. I am feeling more confident in me more than I have ever in my life. About a week ago yesterday really it has been a little longer but randomly my brian texted me how my day was with his mom. Now a cynic would say well that is nothing but it is something especially if you really want it. I tell tell universe and God everyday and several times a day that I love Brian and that he loves me. Funny it helps me feel so much better inside. Along with loving life. Meeting random nice people all the time that give me all kinds of compliments.
Please don't be blue. I do so know it is easier said than done. But you can turn it around. I give you great praise that you are doing a lot of good to better your life. Just don't focus on anything negative. Imagine those flowers, hugs and love you get from him. focus on that dream job and life you are already living. Live as if. right now. Live you life in a romantic journey of falling in love with you. Buy yourself a new outfit. But don't go in debt. Do things that are good for you. For me I did not want to date or be with anyone else. I am not.
And just 4 days ago. brian texted me. He wants to try and get a job that requires us to live together. I don't know if that will be what is meant to be but I am being positive.
Oh I have to tell you. I am going back out west where I am from for my hs reunion. I told him and he messaged me 3 times that day expressing concern that I would not be coming back or that he would like to go there. I assured him I am not staying. I love it here. Yesterday I was out shopping for my trip and told him where I was. He asked what was on my list and so randomly he showed up. Scared me to death. I was so nervous. But I was so very excited.
I know he so loves me. I so love him.
Believe in what you want and make it happen.
Be happy with every moment of your life and be in love with yourself.
Don't think of anything negative or sad.
Have happy memories and thoughts of you two and read and watch Veronicas stuff.
Reading posts and helping others too is a great stress relief and helped me keep my focus on good things.
I am here if you need a friend. But there are many on here also.
Best of luck
live as if

esty83 · 8/01/2016 8:30 am

thanks so much that really put a smile on my face and tears of happiness in my eyes. I just keep acting like he is hugging me in bed and i keep imagining him texting me and telling me he misses me. i keep telling myself by the end of this year i too will be married to him to keep myself going. hard but i try. thank you for your support i appreciate it.

brianslady · 8/01/2016 10:34 am

Wonderful. Just relax kicked back and enjoy the romance of this journey. No pressure. Take care of you and create your most beautiful self in and out. I am the most confident I have ever been in all my life. When you have found this you'll find nothing is out of reach. Keep in touch. Im around if you need suggestions.

Hamster_ · 8/01/2016 11:18 am

well, there definitely are a lot of guys out there. Also, you've proven yourself that the LOA works. so, it's your call(totally). there must be some reason you have been attracting your lover back? I hope, that reason is strong enough to overlook all the things that didn't go right ( I mean, you can forgive yourself for not creating a perfect life because you didn't know you'd been creating it. right? ) So, I feel, the only hope that sometimes stays with us is the love that we believe in. The relationship that is bright and good and happy! So many have it ! We all can have it ! We all deserve it! Even our partners who aren't aware of LOA... I personally feel, by concentrating on the bad parts of your love, you are attracting more of it. hence, these guys. Also, obstacles are illusions. Perhaps, instead of worrying that you want it and don't have it, start living it in your mind already! :D
Also, I hope, you watch Veronica Isles on YouTube. She's wonderful and really uplifts me at least!

all the best! I believe, you are already a success story just not published yet! :D

esty83 · 8/01/2016 10:52 pm

Hamstar I guess its because everyone keeps telling me to move on or better opportunities will present themselves.and i dont knw what t believe. its hard to believe that he will come back when im scared he wont.and i just miss him like crazy. im trying not to feel lack or think or dwell on it but its hard.i have been trying to find other men to date to pass the time not sure if this is a good idea to bring him back bc my energy will change and i wont be so obsessed over him. feedback is good? esty

TheChemist · 8/01/2016 11:11 pm

Other opportunities will present themselves. Who can say what's better? Life's the sort of game where you set your own victory conditions, and the things you consider successes change on a daily basis.

If you want your love, I say you go for it, like you have been, and disregard the others. In a way, being presented with worse options, especially while being told moving on's the better move, really shows you're on the right path. I wouldn't give up on him.

esty83 · 8/02/2016 6:43 am

The Chemist Thank you for your feedback.Im just not sure how to do it anymore. I do meditations, I listen to subconsicious positive audios I try to think of him only in a good light. But on the weekends when im alone i miss him like crazy

Sanshi · 8/02/2016 6:53 am

I haven't read through the whole thread, but what I see in your last post is that your vibration isn't high. You seem to do all this stuff to get him back and that simply doesn't work.
When you miss him, you are focused on his absence and that can't feel good to you. So you are in a low vibration (maybe sadness). You can't manifest much from sadness. You have to work up your way the emotional scale. It doesn't help to force positive thoughts from a low vibration. You don't feel resonance with them, because you can't really access them from a low vibration. It's like reading something in a foreign language you don't understand. You can read the letters (sometimes), but reading them doesn't provide any value to you. You first have to learn the language/move up the emotional scale.

esty83 · 8/02/2016 5:00 pm

sanshi, any advice as to how i can improve my vibrations would help...i hear what your saying..and i get it...sadness=low vibrations= my ex isn't coming back to that...how do i get onto better vibrations that will bring him back...stop thinking of him and when i do, think of it only in good thoughts? esty

Index
» Veronica's 25 Day Challenge
» giving up hope

7/31/2016 4:16 pm #1

giving up hope

7/31/2016 7:17 pm #2

Re: giving up hope

8/01/2016 8:30 am #3

Re: giving up hope

8/01/2016 10:34 am #4

Re: giving up hope

8/01/2016 11:18 am #5

Re: giving up hope

8/01/2016 10:52 pm #6

Re: giving up hope

8/01/2016 11:11 pm #7

Re: giving up hope

8/02/2016 6:43 am #8

Re: giving up hope

8/02/2016 6:53 am #9

Re: giving up hope

8/02/2016 5:00 pm #10

Re: giving up hope

Index
» Veronica's 25 Day Challenge
» giving up hope

Board footera