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Hello forum! Blessings to all and a lot of success to your quests
So here is the thing... My friend told me that my ex posted on his fb profile that basically is dificult for him to forget (me?). Since I am under the NC, I didn't know what was going on with him. So a friend in common showed me the post about how difficult it is to forget, and that he wants to. Some friends encouraged him to keep trying and gave him support. So maybe this is a good sign! Or maybe not? Because I was finally feeling so fine by myself, and suddendly a flood of resistant questions started to fill my mind "Why he is posting about his feeling over fb?... Is he playing the victim? Why?... What if this post is not about me... What if is about something or someone else?... If is about me, is not good I mean he wants to forget me after all..."
I know it sounds desperate and delusional, but I was flying high and I don't know how to take these news... How do I take it from here? I want to mantain my manifestation process and my peace (errr)
PD: He broke up with me because he was not ready for a relationship, he was busy and all, he believed that he wasn't giving everything that should be giving and wanted to be alone to see what happens with him, deal with his insecurities and organize his life, so basically there is no bad break up, but was quite out of the blue. We haven't talked since a month ago.
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It's completely irrelevant what it means. Don't analyse your circumstances. Work your way back up the emotional scale. The only thing that matters that you feel good and the thoughts about it doesn't seem to make you feel good, right? Focus on you. That's the very best thing you can do.
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I've been thinking about how irrelevant it is, I know that the person that I should take care of is me, I guess a part of me wants reasurance that everything will work out at the end.
Thanks for your kind reply!
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Oh no... I started feeling so down right now. I really need some focus because my mind is spinning out of control.
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sunlight7 wrote:
I've been thinking about how irrelevant it is, I know that the person that I should take care of is me, I guess a part of me wants reasurance that everything will work out at the end.
Thanks for your kind reply!
The bad news is that no one can give you a guarantee that everything will work out, the good news is that you have full control over your vibration and therefore over your reality.
Don't beat yourself up for feeling down. If you can't manage to feel better, take a nap.
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No one can tell you the right thing to do because only you can know what your path is (even though I'd love to help everyone and know the answers , that would be cool) but I would suggest having a think about your general vibration lately and then think of how your end goal and keep on being the girl that you want to be (aka, the best of you). When I'm a bit low, I sometimes like to do my make up and my hair alone in my room listening to some empowering music and take a selfie and then sometimes I post it on my facebook. When I see myself looking good, I feel a bit more confident in myself. He might even see it and then make that move ! Or sometimes I like to watch something funny on youtube.
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