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    7/29/2016 7:56 pm  #1

    ds_van23
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    I broke the no contact rule...

    I'm new here so I would love some words of wisdom.
    My ex and I ended things 4 months ago because she wasn't ready for a relationship. 
    I didn't talk again to her and then I made a mistake and I texted her yesterday saying I can't stop thinking about her and I can't move on (yes, I broke the no contact rule, definitely a mistake but I'm moving on from that). She said she hasn't changed how she feels, she still doesn't feel ready and said she hopes I can move on.
    I haven't completely ruined the possibility, right? I now made the choice to delete her from everything because I know that if she is there I will obsess and look at her stuff. Really, what i'm saying is, I can still attract her back? 

    Thank you all <3 
     

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    7/29/2016 9:34 pm  #2

    Jim Chien Beige
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    Re: I broke the no contact rule...

    Don't delete her, deactivate social media.
    You can attract her back if you believe you can, but there are some things that you have to do. If you are willing to assume the whole responsibility for what happened first, heal and improve yourself, then start following the steps.
    You have to know that this is a process. Don't pay attention to her words, don't remember the past and focus on the result you want to achieve.
    This is a journey of perseverance and self discovery.

     

    7/29/2016 9:38 pm  #3

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    Re: I broke the no contact rule...

    I already did delete her but I think it's for the best. I would also like to deactivate my social media because I still use it too much and it would help me spend more time on myself!
    I do believe I can! I do think it will not be instant though and it will take a while to do. 

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    7/30/2016 9:18 am  #4

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    Re: I broke the no contact rule...

    My advice would be to send her a short message explaining that you just deleted her because its hard to move on while having that link and not because you were angry. Its important she knows you're not angry because anger repels but vulnerabilty is understandable and attractive

    'What We Think, We Become' -Buddha
     

     

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