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A challenge
I don't think it's necessarily bad. That we talk/think about our loves. But I feel a lot of us get into a bad habit of doing it often. And what was meant to be positive thinking turns to negative thinking and lack
I think it would be cool. If we as a board. Tried our best not to talk about our loves on here that much. From now until August 30th. And if we do, we talk about them minimal
I think a lot of us could use. Putting 100 percent focus on ourselves. And just discussing. In general things about LOA.
Also. If we do post about our loves. It needs to be all positive. No missing them or anything like that
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Re: A challenge
It's a great idea, but I'm afraid it won't work. It's like saying to a junkie "Try to be clean for a month." Many people here really don't want to put work into feeling better. They don't want to concentrate on themselfs. They want a quick fix to get their love back, so that they can make them happy. They have to get it on their own that it doesn't work that way.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: A challenge
Sanshi wrote:
It's a great idea, but I'm afraid it won't work. It's like saying to a junkie "Try to be clean for a month." Many people here really don't want to put work into feeling better. They don't want to concentrate on themselfs. They want a quick fix to get their love back, so that they can make them happy. They have to get it on their own that it doesn't work that way.
That's true. I think in the process. I'm trying to motivate myself more lol
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Re: A challenge
It's a great idea, but I'm afraid it won't work. It's like saying to a junkie "Try to be clean for a month." Many people here really don't want to put work into feeling better. They don't want to concentrate on themselfs. They want a quick fix to get their love back, so that they can make them happy. They have to get it on their own that it doesn't work that way.
That's true. I think in the process. I'm trying to motivate myself more lol
Yes, it's a process. You can't force yourself to feel better just to feel better. Most people try to feel better to get their love back. How do you go about this? How can you change from feeling better to get your love back to feeling better to just feel better? By waiting. It happens naturally with time, if you don't fight against it. I think there is no other way, or I haven't figured it out yet.
I think I will start some non-ex related topics in the near future. Feel free to join.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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