Dan2015 wrote:

I see a lot of people say social media should be deactivated... I agree, if you're just starting your journey, I feel you should delete your social media IF you keep checking your loves stuff..

but I feel as you move on in the journey, social media is kind of fun... I love using social media to spread positive vibes.. or talk about my favorite sports teams,movies,tv shows, and even politics here and there..    I feel social media can be good   if you don't use it to stalk your love.

Facebook is torture for some people who is suffering because of the breakup. I deactivated it and I found more time to focus on what I want, to read and to learn.
What my BF is doing is none of my business and you see, the life people show on FB is not even real.

Natasha wrote:

Yeah I can understand both sides. If you're attached to a specific person and you know social media is keeping you attached and or causing negative feelings, it's definitely beneficial to get rid of it. But,as Dan has said, if that's not the case it can be really fun as well as a source of information for things like LOA and spirituality which I really benefit from. It's also a great way to connect with like minded people. Especially for people like us who are into LOA, spirituality, alternative ways of thinking in general.

 
I agree! Facebook is a great tool to connect with people, and it's great to use it if you are in a happy place. But some people of this forum get sad, angry, desperate, etc because they stalk their BF wall. Every like they see is a motive to fall down.