You start by turning your attention away from what is currently taking place. In terms of how long?  It will take as long as it takes for you to genuinely, unconditionally love him regardless of how he is behaving towards you. And to hold that vision of you both together steadily in your mind until it becomes solid fact. You have to stop reliving past hurts, and you also must try to stop feeling good only for a fraction of time and then take score and get upset because your desire hasn't manifested yet. It simply can't work that way. You need to make a genuine shift in your vibration, to one of appreciation and happiness before things can start shifting for you. You shouldn't take any action, unless it is inspired from a place of love.. if this is all done properly you won't need to lift a finger, he will come right into your world! 😘