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So ice been on this forum for quite some time. I really have learned so much from everyone here. Even though I have though of just leaving the forum and trying to forget about it, something just continues to draw me here. I know that I have to make this about me and I have to do it for me.. Not for B. So I think I really am ready to get some work going. I'm also on the Abe forum (which I know some of you are already over there) and I thoroughly enjoy reading through all the threads over there.. But seeing as tho this is the forum that I began my journey on, I think I would like to continue it here also. I'm up for any insights, advice, pointers, I'm game for all of it. I'm ready to be deliberate about me and my life. B really does mean a whole lot to me, and bc of him I was led to Abe and this forum.. So I don't think there is a coincidence going on. I'm worthy of anything my heart truly desires. I want to be the best version of me that I can, so that when I see him one day.. It's gonna knock him over
So any and everyone.. I'm ready. I really hope to get some really good momentum going SOON!
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(I'm not really here, so I don't have any advice to give. It just made me happy to read the title of this thread. You got this girl. You rock! Go your way to better feelings and listen to the people's advice on the abe forum, if it resonates. They are great and really know what they are talking about.)
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I enjoy paradise-on-earth's posts on the Abe Forum. When I didn't understand Abe concepts at all, she made it a lot easier. But yeah, do it for you and not just for B.
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Ok.. So after wolf went into detail as to what Abraham is talking about when they say essence, I've been talking (to myself) about what does it feel like. I actually love doing this because it evokes positive passion in me.
Where I am in this.. So I've been dancing around in frustration/impatience/ and doubt for a good long while. I'm not upset with myself over this either bcause I know that it's just apart of my journey. No sense in kicking myself for it. However I'm ready to move up the scale. So if someone can help me with figuring out exactly I should do that??? I've read a lot of threads and if I am interpreting things correctly, I can get into a higher vibration on any topic, and as I do so I will naturally move up the scale in regards to this specific topic. Is that right?
Sam.. You Said one day that everytime you thought of your guy you quickly told yourself "he's on his way" and then you got off the topic. I have really been trying to just focus on other things, instead of focusing on him ALL flipping day. But he still pops into my head numerous numerous times a day, and I don't necessarily want to ignore it, bc I think that would be counterproductive.. So do you have any suggestions as to something I maybe could practice when this happens. I will say, when I'm feeling really really good and he pops in my head.. I LOVE it. I love thinking about him. But when I'm feeling anything less than really good and he pops into my head.. It just brings me down further.
I am really concentrating on being good to me. I deserve to be happy and smile and laugh. Who knows, I may fall again, but I'm learning to get back up as quickly as I can. And yes I know it has to be for me.. And not all for B. And really it is for me.. I want to look in the mirror and be blown away by myself. I wanna look back on my journey one day and say to myself "look at you, look how far you've come..you are amazing" and I will. I know I will.
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Yes.. I absolutely agree that I want to get a really good handle on this now for me.. I've needed a change in my life for a while now. So I'm ready. How would you suggest me move out of this frustrated place I seem to be in
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Well for me it was hard work and determination, i started to appreciate my life the things i have in life and i started to love me, every morning i look into the mirror and tell myself i love you no matter what,
and i spent times doing what i love to do, dancing music gym helping others in need,
so find what you love...Β
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If you strip Abraham back, you see her message is namely that you can learn to be content without anything except your basic means of survival, so the amazonians tribe people are as likely to reach the same level of happiness as the richest people, which is true. So you actually have the potential to be quite content now as you are. Sometimes its good to remind yourself of how lucky you are if you have health, a house, youre not a refugee etc. ..
Then start living your life with that pleasant feeling of being a lucky human being, which you are if you're biggest worry is a man and not getting bombed at any minute or struggling over health or drugs or anything..
Then start to feel lucky for the people who are actually in your life who make you feel loved and not alone.
Then start to feel lucky for your youth, that you have time left to do things in your life!
When you really sit back and reflect on all those things, you can't help but feel gratitude.
When you get there and learn to get there naturally every day, you actually do walk around with a smile and a great feeling for just having everything you have and being alive!
And then start to fill your mind with new information, read books, watch films, documentaries and meditate, become a full human being who reaches your spiritual potential
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Then when you get to that place, attracting any man is a piece of cake haha
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iinikkii, I've always loved this post and it may be helpful for you:
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Colonel Roosevelt wrote:
iinikkii, I've always loved this post and it may be helpful for you:
Thank you.. I thoroughly enjoyed the post!! Will really take heed to the advice given! Thanks for looking out