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Hi all, so i have been trying to manifest a romantic relationship with this woman that I've known for about 8/9 months now. We started off sort-of dating although nothing physical happened between us. Then she said about us being only friends, then a few months down the line asked if I saw her as more than friends, i said yes, but then she turned around and said she was going to be moving abroad next year and that it wouldn't be fair to start a relationship with me(or anyone). This is when i discovered LOA and manifesting your ex back, so started to do some LOA work. Her and I carried on as friends until we had a massive fallout, and I still don't really know why. A couple of weeks ago I was still doing my visualisations but I was willing to let her go. I didn't reply to a text she sent me, and thought I'd never hear from her again. two days later she texted me. And then again a few days later.
Last friday, after having not heard from her since the previous sunday, and after me having had a really strong, vivid visualisation on the thursday night, she texted me! This resulted in us meeting up (for the first time in well over a month) on saturday. We had the most brilliant time, well, i did! We laughed and hung out and were just together, I even stayed over and slept in the same bed as her (although nothing happened). All this is great, totally the miracle I was wanting, but my problem is whilst I was with her, I saw a couple of notifications from a dating app come up on her phone, so clearly she is looking to date. So why not me? And how can I stop the worry about this?
Today I'm feeling less than high vibration-wise which I know isn't helping, and I know its because the miracle I received wasn't the full miracle I want - I want her to want to be in a relationship with me. Can anyone give me any advice on how to align and how to stop from thinking about her being on the dating app?
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wizzo810 wrote:
ย I saw a couple of notifications from a dating app come up on her phone, so clearly she is looking to date. So why not me? And how can I stop the worry about this?
Today I'm feeling less than high vibration-wise which I know isn't helping, and I know its because the miracle I received wasn't the full miracle I want - I want her to want to be in a relationship with me. Can anyone give me any advice on how to align and how to stop from thinking about her being on the dating app?
Hi! So I am going through this right now. A guy has come back into my reality, gotten out of a relationship, doesn't want a relationship right now but is on the same dating app that I am. WTF, right? But honestly, I don't even pay attention to it. Sure, its comes across my mind as to why reconnect with me and but then go on a dating app? I ignore it.
Do not focus on the current reality. Continue doing those visualizations if they make you feel really good. She is yours -- she's reaching out to you! That's an excellent sign. Work on getting that vibe up!! Go do something that will distract you for some time.
P.S. As a girl on a dating app, I get quite a bit of notifications a day. That doesn't mean I'm interested, I'm just seeing whats out there. I'm going after my guy. A dating app is also a confidence booster (for me personally).
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Thank you so much big blue! That has helped me so much. I couldn't believe it when she texted friday and then said about us meeting up saturday - a huge about turn for us!ย
So yes, I know this is working. i just need to stop worrying about the dating app things as I know that my past experience has led to such worries coming true - and I think that's my bigger worry, that me thinking about it will make something happen. i need to get clear of those thoughts.
I've just been for a long, lovely walk and saw a couple of signs ( won't relay them here as they would sound nuts!). And I am focusing on the fact that she reached out to me - she is mine! She asked me to stay over (and a while ago i never thought I'd ever get to sleep next to her again), so that's a miracle in itself. Thank you again - I will do my best to keep my vibe really high, and keep reminding myself that she is mine :-)
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wizzo810 wrote:
So yes, I know this is working. i just need to stop worrying about the dating app things as I know that my past experience has led to such worries coming true - and I think that's my bigger worry, that me thinking about it will make something happen. i need to get clear of those thoughts.
Same boat my friend. I believe that is where my final resistance lies towards my guy. BUT, I keep reminding myself that he came back, and that alone brings about a huge sigh of relief!
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I feel your pain! If you find a way to clear that final resistance then please let me know! But yeah, I feel so amazed and relieved that I've gotten to see her again and that it was good, we had fun. just hope she feels the same!
I hope things work out with you and your guy. This girl here is hoping (creating!) that her girl comes round even more and will be properly with me soon.