Hi love yourself! . Yea. Hope that I didn't disappoints you guys! ;) and yep, patience is the main thing now. Because current reality still isn't what I wanted but i say Thank you for it and let go and think of what I want. I really hope things will be what I wanted it to be!

Joys for all xoxo :*

LoveYourself wrote:

Hi his one and only
I've only been into LOA since May and I have read and learnt so much during this time This is how I distract myself away from thinking about my friend constantly
Have you read "The Power"? That is a good book and is the second book following "The Secret".
Did you reread what you wrote before you sent it? It is full of can't dos. You need to change those can't dos into can dos Change the negatives into positives. Rewrite your story, rewrite what you have put up there
RS doesn't work straight away I've been doing RS for about a month now. If you do it from a place of desperation, then all he will see from you is desperation. "THOUGHTS BECOME THINGS"
Oncew you are mindful of your thoughts becoming things, then you'll try hard not to have bad thoughts

Hi loveyourself,
   Idk is this a good thing or a bad thing. Well, he called and wanted to just plain talk. He didn't say much. I'm the one who's finding topics to say. Then I decided to video call and he agreed too. I ask him to show me his room. He don't feel excited or anything. He looks tired and not excited... I feel down. He says he got nothing to do. It's only 5pm there so he can't sleep too. Argh... what is wrong.. when I look at his face. It makes me wanna cry. Does this means that we can't be tgt anymore? He don't look passionate..
 

LoveYourself wrote:

I agree with baby she was where you are and she turned it around and now she's got her love back

Aww thanks! Read this whilst walking and it put a massive smile on my face haha! The guy walking past me must have thought im such a weirdo! Haha but yeah that is my story! 😊

I've got a situation here.
    Well, he kinda contact me and didn't say much but just to update what he's doing at the moment and whatever. Just yesterday, he did something that I don't like so I say just don't talk for a while, then he said fine just find each other again next month. Then my phone just gone crazy and keep in restarting itself so I can't text him or anything. So after 8 hours, I charged my phone and it works again. I saw a few msg he said I'm doing stuff ( meeting up with guys or anything, he always says this just to make me reply him but i didn't), then he went kinda mad. And said something like "we're done" "we're done earlier". I was like, what? So I called and explain my phone problem and ask him why would he say something like that? He just said that I did something , I asked and he don't wanna tell me, then I know that haters just tell him things that I don't know, he kinda trust them, so he talked to me in a harsh way. He asked me to think of what have I did, I tell him I have done nothing, and there's nothing I can explain. Then he's like "fine, I'll trust you one more time. Just don't do anything that make me disappointed on you". I have fears. I can't imagine what could a hater could do, I can't even recall anything bad I did to him in my mind. I love him so much and how would I hurt him? I can't recall anything, but I'm afraid things that I said will make people misunderstands. Urgh. Whole class hates me with things that I didn't even do, but I can't explain. Why is my life full of problems? I only have a few true friends left. I need a life coach argh.

Hi Hisoneandonly, I still get from your posts that you are focusing only on negative things. And because of that the Universe gives you more of negative things. 
To me it seems that you have soooooooo much to be grateful for. You are at least in some kind of relationship with your loved one. You get to communicate with him, he initates contact with you. These are things I've been trying to manifest for a year. You have it!! 
Now you have to get yourself together and focus on things that you are happy about. Visualize about him being soooo lovely and nice to you.


About his your situation and his reaction- It's obvious that he don't want to lose you and probably is right now insecure himself. But I don't think you should let him rant about things that some mysterious friends said. I call it BS. If he had some real info you had done something, he would have said it.
If I were you I would say to him that this kind of behaviour is not acceptable and then didn't contact him until he remembers how to treat ladies. At the meantime you can visualize about your perfect relationship and him as perfect Prince Charming.


I don't know, maybe my advice is too harsh but I was reallllllllly suprised and shocked about how you let him treat you......