LoA can bring him back to you, BUT you are far from the right place to do that. Your post has a very negative vibe. You have to feel better first, you have to be happy first, else you only will go all the path down to depression. My advice is (and I think that is really important, so don't ignore it, just because it's not what you want to hear) step back from him for a while. Do everything that feels good to you. Don't think about him, he won't disappear, so no need to rush things. You have to grow, else the same thing will happen again and again. So take you time, get emotional stable and try to feel a little better every day. Don't expect results in days, it will take time - a few months normally. But trust me, it's so worth it. We all went through this and it's absolutely doable, if you don't give up. Find your worth, find happiness and satisfaction on your own and then you can think about applying LoA, but you have to build the basis first.

For me right now, it seems to be difficult to move past this hurt. I've never experienced anything like this before and have no clue how to deal with it. I'm 21 years old and he was my first everything. I'm just not sure how to deal. I know I need to be happy with myself, I just don't know where to start. When I hang out with friends and family, all I can think about is him & it's really so frustrating. 😣

lostinlife wrote:

For me right now, it seems to be difficult to move past this hurt. I've never experienced anything like this before and have no clue how to deal with it. I'm 21 years old and he was my first everything. I'm just not sure how to deal. I know I need to be happy with myself, I just don't know where to start. When I hang out with friends and family, all I can think about is him & it's really so frustrating. 😣

I know that you can't really believe that right now, but it really gets better with time. I found that I had a much harder time to heal, when I started to "use" LoA right after the breakup. It really is easier to step away at first, else the pain only lasts longer. I know that this is easier said than done, because we always have the need to take action to make something happen (and even if it's just visualising),  but it doesn't do any good from a low vibration. I got two exes back in my life and I didn't know anything about LoA then. I just moved on. And then I tried two times to attract an ex back with LoA and I failed both times, because I tried way too hard and felt bad most of the time. Maybe that makes it easier for you to concentrate on yourself for a while. Chances that you will have success are much higher, when you feel good. Know that you attract him in every minute you feel good, even without thinking about him.