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Sudden Loss of hope
My ex and i have broken up for 5 months now and we have no contact since the breakup. I've been practicing LOA for 3 months now along with RS, i felt like my vibration is high and i'm happy being with myself. I visualized us together, getting married and having a child.
Just awhile ago, i saw someone tag my ex in a group photo. In it, there's a girl who had her hand on his lap. It just hit me that he might have started seeing someone else. How did all this happen? I thought LOA / RS definitely works? Are these just our imagination and there for those who want to hope? I was really hopeful and now.... i feel like i've been slapped in the face and the joke is on me.
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Re: Sudden Loss of hope
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Just awhile ago, i saw someone tag my ex in a group photo. In it, there's a girl who had her hand on his lap. It just hit me that he might have started seeing someone else. How did all this happen? I thought LOA / RS definitely works? Are these just our imagination and there for those who want to hope? I was really hopeful and now.... i feel like i've been slapped in the face and the joke is on me.
I had this happen to me. Saw a guy I previously dated in a group photo with his arm around a girl. Crushed. Devastated. Tears. You name it. I wasn't even trying to attract this guy back! But you know what, I had my day of pity, then picked myself up and continued on with life. He reached out to me a few weeks ago to catch up. He's no longer with that girl.
Things happen, keep going. Don't look at the photo. Don't worry, stress, etc. about it. Continue feeling those good feelings and he'll be back around. Visualization/RS is a vibe booster, not a definite tool to get him back. Its to make you FEEL good. Don't focus on the when, the how, or the where of when he's coming back. Focus on your desired reality with him.
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Re: Sudden Loss of hope
My ex and i have broken up for 5 months now and we have no contact since the breakup. I've been practicing LOA for 3 months now along with RS, i felt like my vibration is high and i'm happy being with myself. I visualized us together, getting married and having a child.
Just awhile ago, i saw someone tag my ex in a group photo. In it, there's a girl who had her hand on his lap. It just hit me that he might have started seeing someone else. How did all this happen? I thought LOA / RS definitely works? Are these just our imagination and there for those who want to hope? I was really hopeful and now.... i feel like i've been slapped in the face and the joke is on me.
You get a match to your vibration. If you were in the right vibration, something like this wouldn't bother you, because you would know that he is yours. The moment you do a technique in order to get something from it, you aren't in the right vibration. LoA is paradoxical. You never get what you want or need, you only get more of what you already are.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
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I did RS/visualisation/meditation because it's exactly what you said, they make me feel peaceful and good inside.
He just untagged himself from that particular photo, why...i can only guess. i guess i'm a little shocked. The girl wasn't good looking at all and nothing compared to me.
i do want to believe in LOA. i know i attracted him into my life before, i wrote a list that i wanted a partner and he came into my life.
thank you for telling me your story big blue. i hope you can attract whatever you want.
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Oh, I am attracting whatever I want. Thanks!
I would seriously erase that photo from your mind. BOOM. Its the past. Go do something that you really enjoy doing. Do it for the rest of the day. Stay off social media until that vibe is kick-ass again!
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Re: Sudden Loss of hope
Don't let it worry you!!!!Be firm. Stick to your story.
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Sanshi do you suggest i stop visualizing /RS? I'm a little confused . from waht i read, these defnitely work and i believed in them...
It completely depends on your motives. If you enjoy doing it, do it. Would you do it, even if you would know that he would never come back? If your answer is yes, do it. Do everything that makes you feel good. But it doesn't work, if you do it to get your stuff.
Visualisation is no 100% success guarantee. It's just a tool and you can manifest without it. It's all about your vibration. Basically, you can manifest without visualisation, if you are in the right vibration, but you can't manifest with visualisation, if you are not in the right vibration. Uuuuh, I rhymed. 
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: Sudden Loss of hope
Sanshi do you suggest i stop visualizing /RS? I'm a little confused . from waht i read, these defnitely work and i believed in them...
It completely depends on your motives. If you enjoy doing it, do it. Would you do it, even if you would know that he would never come back? If your answer is yes, do it. Do everything that makes you feel good. But it doesn't work, if you do it to get your stuff.
Visualisation is no 100% success guarantee. It's just a tool and you can manifest without it. It's all about your vibration. Basically, you can manifest without visualisation, if you are in the right vibration, but you can't manifest with visualisation, if you are not in the right vibration. Uuuuh, I rhymed.
Ignore what they do on social media and 'unfollow' them, ignore it completely, the best thing!
Agree with Sanshi here, I like to do the RS and heart meditations because they make me feel good and I know they help harmonise us when we meet up again, sort of like, change the vibration. And yeah, I like to talk my way into feeling good sometimes and that just makes me feel really good.
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