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dear, just like others here i also have a story of an ex coming back after treating me horribly and moving far away...i know it is hard to believe that things and people change - heck, i didnt believe it myself! - but i assure you: it can be done! my main man has been away for almost two years, has ignored me and is with someone else, but still i know i will bring him back, and bring him hard!!! (no pun intendedΒ Β ). it is just a matter of calming down and focusing - i'm meaning this to myself too...
remember, we have LOA!!!
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Hi the winner your story gave me hope too! Thankyou!
It took 2 years?! How do you maintain your faith? You might have some time that your starting to lose hope right? Now I'm trying to visualise and let go I mean letting go the thoughts. I still feel a lil bit of desperation. I wanted him to change and come back to have happy and stable relationship with me asap. But I know I couldn't force it right? So what do you think I should do?
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eh, i'm not a good advicer, more like a good supporter...
i went thru a few rough patches but knowing about the existence of loa really does help. also, as i said, things change. i saw him doing things i never imagined he was capable of...there was even a time i thought he was out of my league but still i managed a relationship with him - short lived but it happened, contradicting my beliefs...so think of all we can do if we start changing our thoughts and believing...easier said than done, but the bottom line is: it can be done! check Veronica's videos, they really speak volumes! - again, no pun intended...
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Where can I see her YouTube video? Thank you once again
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He said that he don't know he still love me or not. My faith is shaken. My friends keep on telling me he don't love me anymore. Urgh. How do I ignore?
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Well to be honest.. I don't really want my ex back. Even though is back wanting me back. Msging me daily. I am grateful that he came and realised his mistake and I wish him well. We are still friends. But I realised he is not the guy I want. I met someone who is my soulmate and realised that he is the one. My guy is wonderful. And with him my world rocks. There is magic everytime we are together.
I am here to attract him not my ex. Currently we are in nc so want him to come to me.
About you situation. Relax baby.he is going nowhere. You need to stop being clingy and desperate. It will make me him more distant. Be calm. And evaluate your current situation.
Sweetheart stop asking for advice. From friends from here or any other forum . And say you don't want to discuss anything anymore about the two of you. Block your mind from constant rambling.
Practice what you have learnt and read from all the great advice you been given.cya
Xoxo
Last edited by ArKa (9/21/2015 12:24 am)
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Hi arka,
Thanks for your reply. You calms me down with the "he's going nowhere". Thankyou!
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Argh guys. Why do I feel so unstable. Doubts keep creeping in! Gah. Can anyone give me any directions of what to do first? I read some post/ article and it says "long distance relationship break up are hard to mend". Damn. I need to believe that he still love me! He wants me! I need him to change. Urgh... I can't find any success stories familiar to this.
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then write your own story, dear!
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Keep having doubts.. Gah. I'm tired. I miss him.