big_blue wrote:

There have been members here who have been blocked from all forms of communication and have gotten back together with their person. So yes, it is possible.

A guy I had dated about a year ago recently reconnected with me. After he had ended things, we hadn't really talked. I found out he had gotten into a relationship a few months afterwards. I was crushed. I moved on with my life, but would think about him from time to time. Just recently he texted me out of the blue, wanting to re-establish a friendship. I'm working on getting him to say 'screw the friendship, lets date!'. I never thought I'd hear from him again!

All is possible with LOA and positive vibes and good feelings!

 
That's amazing!!! X

Capitano wrote:

I just find it difficult to control my thoughts.

What do you do when you start thinking about stuff that happened etc?

You are on a very early stage. Acknowledge what happened, accept it, forgive yourself and forgive your girlfriend. That´s the first step. Meditate, heal yourself, know that this is just temporary. 

You can´t start attracting your ex back from where you are now. 

Cry, yell, do whatever you have to do to let your feelings out and to cleanse yourself. You´ll start to feel better but that won´t happen overnight.

Give yourself some time to feel bad, don´t try to cover your emotions. You have to focus on yourself NOW. Avoid alcohol and don´t neglect your job/school. You´ll feel like a zombie for some days, but know that everyday you´ll feel better. 

Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pq31_OLa3dE

And also, there are many meditations on you tube. This is a good one. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RqrssdH6ET4

Last edited by Jim Chien Beige (7/21/2016 9:44 am)

Shooting star, that's put a massive smile on my face

I AM GOING TO GET HER BACK.. I AM A MAGNET ATTRACTING HER

Feel so much more positive now

I totally agree.  Love yourself.  Dive into your world.  My heart goes out to you.  Im in the same place.  But I won't give into quitting.  Love heals everything.  Focus on the good times you both were happy and in love.  Write your happily ever after with it being now not after.  Visualize, and imagine so many romantic situations with each other.  Always acting as if.  I highly recommend Veronica isles videos and all her books.  Especially the 25 day Challenge.  It will keep your mind focused. You need healthy love yourself building situations constantly.  Find ways to change your negative thoughts.  Its a great discipline and is so helpful.  You have to want it.  With my Brian i love him so I need to give him time to heal and really me too. I think you do also.  Clean up your world and create a happy successful life that you want her to feel your love piece and happiness.  The next time she sees you.  You will blow her away at how unbelievably attractive you are in all ways.  And you will be so confident that youll sweep her off her feet.  I know this is so possible but you need to work for it. Though to call it work means you dread it.  To do this.  Have the thoughts in your head: I love myself, my life, my job, my world.  See the good in everything.  Imagine telling her how happy you are in the world you created and especially how happy that you get to share it all with her.   Great success and keep us posted.  Note: individuals on here are so thoughtful and supportive.  Allow them to help also. 
Dwell on the positive always.
Love is everything.