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How to make time irrelevant ?
It's been three years since my love and I have been together and I have been trying everyone loa wise to get her back.. I have not had any success I these past few years and I feel as though my life is upside down .. I want my life to be amazing again as it was once before I want everything in my life to be turned around a whole 360 and even three times more beautiful then it was before . I want to be full of hope and know that things can still get turned around . I go through these period of one to two weeks I'm happy and positive and can feel my love and then I crash for one to two weeks.
Limiting beliefs :
1. It's been three years
2. My bestfriend and I fell in love and we are the same sex( this Ihe only same sex person I have been with and will be with our connection was so strong)
3. My parents are religious and don't believe in same sex anything they say it's against the bible and not what God wants (my parents don't know my love and I dated)
I feel like I have tried everything idk what to do , idk if there is anything I can do anymore since I've tried everything , I just truly miss my bestfriend /love and all my friends
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Thank you so much for taking time out to respond .. I want to feel better and since you say as soon as I get into alignment and feel better that's when my situation will change .. I've been trying so hard to feel better and get out of this dark place but it only last for one to two weeks do you have any tips on how I can make myself feel better ? How can I just focus on myself ? .. I want to start a blog, business and YouTube page but I can never get myself to just focus on it becaus I'm focused on getting my love back .. I agree with you I need to focus on myself once I have all my focus on myself my bestfriend /love of seven years will come back and all my friendships will be fixed .. I would really love your help since you also have something incommon with me
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Re: How to make time irrelevant ?
Love5278 wrote:
Thank you so much for taking time out to respond .. I want to feel better and since you say as soon as I get into alignment and feel better that's when my situation will change .. I've been trying so hard to feel better and get out of this dark place but it only last for one to two weeks do you have any tips on how I can make myself feel better ? How can I just focus on myself ? .. I want to start a blog, business and YouTube page but I can never get myself to just focus on it becaus I'm focused on getting my love back .. I agree with you I need to focus on myself once I have all my focus on myself my bestfriend /love of seven years will come back and all my friendships will be fixed .. I would really love your help since you also have something incommon with me
Trying hard is never the way to go. It's an indicator that you are on the wrong path. You can't get from frustration to bliss, it's a gradual process and it takes a little time and practice. You have to be mindful and watch your thoughts and feelings.The other important thing is that you do it for you. You will always fail, if you just do it to manifest something.
I can't really understand how one can run after somebody else for three whole years, but that's none of my business. However, you tried to use LoA in this three years and it didn't work out for you. So why do you think that focusing on something else for a while would kill your manifestation? I will be blunt here: If you work on something for 3 years, it's not the fault of LoA. It's not that LoA needs so much time. It's that you don't allow it in. So if you couldn't manage to allow it within the last three years, why do you think going off the subject makes any difference? If it makes a difference, then it's in your favor.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: How to make time irrelevant ?
Thank you so much for taking time out to respond .. I want to feel better and since you say as soon as I get into alignment and feel better that's when my situation will change .. I've been trying so hard to feel better and get out of this dark place but it only last for one to two weeks do you have any tips on how I can make myself feel better ? How can I just focus on myself ? .. I want to start a blog, business and YouTube page but I can never get myself to just focus on it becaus I'm focused on getting my love back .. I agree with you I need to focus on myself once I have all my focus on myself my bestfriend /love of seven years will come back and all my friendships will be fixed .. I would really love your help since you also have something incommon with me
Trying hard is never the way to go. It's an indicator that you are on the wrong path. You can't get from frustration to bliss, it's a gradual process and it takes a little time and practice. You have to be mindful and watch your thoughts and feelings.The other important thing is that you do it for you. You will always fail, if you just do it to manifest something.
I can't really understand how one can run after somebody else for three whole years, but that's none of my business. However, you tried to use LoA in this three years and it didn't work out for you. So why do you think that focusing on something else for a while would kill your manifestation? I will be blunt here: If you work on something for 3 years, it's not the fault of LoA. It's not that LoA needs so much time. It's that you don't allow it in. So if you couldn't manage to allow it within the last three years, why do you think going off the subject makes any difference? If it makes a difference, then it's in your favor.
I feel like you're insulting me so I don't need your help if you are that way.. You don't know what I been through
You can keep your rude comments to yourself I come here for help and guidance not to be disrespected
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Trying hard is never the way to go. It's an indicator that you are on the wrong path. You can't get from frustration to bliss, it's a gradual process and it takes a little time and practice. You have to be mindful and watch your thoughts and feelings.The other important thing is that you do it for you. You will always fail, if you just do it to manifest something.
I can't really understand how one can run after somebody else for three whole years, but that's none of my business. However, you tried to use LoA in this three years and it didn't work out for you. So why do you think that focusing on something else for a while would kill your manifestation.Yeah, this!
I did this when I was very attached to my desire, it worked, I've had some lovely manifestations after that
and I feel much better.
How about starting with that youtube page? That's a good thing to focus on.
I have one myself, I'll be your first subscriber
Wow that would mean a lot to me thank you ! I really think that focusing on myself will help in a major way for me to get my desire.. That's cool that you also have your own YouTube page , did it help you to get your mind off things and focus on yourself ?.. Have you had a lot of success yourself already ?
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Re: How to make time irrelevant ?
Thank you so much for taking time out to respond .. I want to feel better and since you say as soon as I get into alignment and feel better that's when my situation will change .. I've been trying so hard to feel better and get out of this dark place but it only last for one to two weeks do you have any tips on how I can make myself feel better ? How can I just focus on myself ? .. I want to start a blog, business and YouTube page but I can never get myself to just focus on it becaus I'm focused on getting my love back .. I agree with you I need to focus on myself once I have all my focus on myself my bestfriend /love of seven years will come back and all my friendships will be fixed .. I would really love your help since you also have something incommon with me
Trying hard is never the way to go. It's an indicator that you are on the wrong path. You can't get from frustration to bliss, it's a gradual process and it takes a little time and practice. You have to be mindful and watch your thoughts and feelings.The other important thing is that you do it for you. You will always fail, if you just do it to manifest something.
I can't really understand how one can run after somebody else for three whole years, but that's none of my business. However, you tried to use LoA in this three years and it didn't work out for you. So why do you think that focusing on something else for a while would kill your manifestation? I will be blunt here: If you work on something for 3 years, it's not the fault of LoA. It's not that LoA needs so much time. It's that you don't allow it in. So if you couldn't manage to allow it within the last three years, why do you think going off the subject makes any difference? If it makes a difference, then it's in your favor.I feel like you're insulting me so I don't need your help if you are that way.. You don't know what I been through
You can keep your rude comments to yourself I come here for help and guidance not to be disrespected
You are right, I don't know what you created in your experience aka what you have been through. If you feel that I'm insulting you or am disrespecting, then you should maybe read again. But it's okay. Don't worry, I won't reply to your posts anymore. If you aren't able to extract the "help and guidance" behind my words, it's just a waste of time.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com