sneha wrote:

So I have been applying the 25 day challenging to attract a specific person, I have been talking on and off with this specific person but mostly friendly. However this specific person is seeing someone, this doesn't bother me so much as I don't think about her! I only picture me and him. However I feel like I need to do something different to change things up a little! I am aware that the universe gives at the right time and shouldn't rush it. However I am struggling a little to keep going, I miss him a little and just want to feel him in my arms now!

Thanks 

What does you hold back from feeling him in your arms? You can do that - in your mind.  The problem is, the moment you want it NOW and the moment you miss him, you are focused on his absence and you get more of his absence. Many people do think that at first, but LoA isn't a quick fix for everything that went wrong in your life. It took you time to ruin your relationship, it will take you time to fix it. Impatience doesn't lead you anywhere. It just brings you more reasons to be impatient.

If I would tell you today that he would be back in your arms in exactly 6 months from now. What would you feel and do? Would you be impatient, because it's such a long time or would you be excited, because you have a guarantee? Would you sit around and wait for the 6 months to pass or would you enjoy life? And what would you feel if I would tell you that it COULD take 6 months (without any guarantee)? You would most likely be impatient, right? So the problem isn't that he isn't here yet, the problem is that you aren't sure that he will be back. You are impatient, because you have doubts. So maybe that's an issue you should work through first.

esty83 wrote:

Sanshi...Good point...so to speed it up you have to feel it happening now and just be positive and forget the past..just don't think about it and just enjoy life as if they are already in yourlife...right?

To speed it up, you first of all have to forget about speeding it up. You can think about it, but from the end of the stick that you want. Did you read my post "relax~"? It contains basically everything you need to know to get everything you want.

sneha wrote:

Thanks guys, yhh I really do need to relax! I am willing to wait however long it takes! I just want to make sure I do it right and keep my vibrations up! Where can I find the relax post?

Don't wait, live! And you know, if you do it right or not by the way you feel.

Here is the post: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=3649

Thank you Sanshi...I guess your right. Every time I needed the train or bus to arrive and instead of freaking out im running late, I always see the bus or train arriving when I arrive and taking me to work and i seem to get there mostly on time.

I never sweat it and just know it will happen. I guess this is the attitude I have to present myself with in regards to a better job and getting my ex back. Thanks again!

Esty