I don't know that dreams mean anything really. I honestly believe they are like commercials replaying from the emotions or thoughts your having. The nursing is always working so I trast it is the residual thoughts you had playing out in abstract before you awake to reboot.

Creator333 wrote:

Im feeling very good these days and doing the work but keep having nightmares now every night about my ex
And mostly in the dreams she doesnt want me back

Is this just a cleansing of vibration or what do I take it as? X

Nice thought that you can clear up your vibration while you are sleeping, but I'm afraid it doesn't work that way. Your dreams are an indicator where your vibration is. Do you really believe that she is on her way back to do? Or are you afraid that she maybe won't come back? Have you bad feelings towards her? Think carefully about it. You can pretend feeling good and suppress your feelings, but you can't fake your vibration.

Maybe an interesting thing.. I decided that I didn't longer want my ex a few months ago. Before that, I have tried to attract him for 5 months and I never dreamt about us getting back together. I always had dreams in which he disappeared in the end. Since I stopped working on attracting him, I had three much more positive dreams about him. So I guess I was resisting it all the time and since I stopped focusing on it, I dropped resistance and allowed my dreams about him becoming more positive.

Creator333 wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Creator333 wrote:

Im feeling very good these days and doing the work but keep having nightmares now every night about my ex
And mostly in the dreams she doesnt want me back

Is this just a cleansing of vibration or what do I take it as? X

Nice thought that you can clear up your vibration while you are sleeping, but I'm afraid it doesn't work that way. Your dreams are an indicator where your vibration is. Do you really believe that she is on her way back to do? Or are you afraid that she maybe won't come back? Have you bad feelings towards her? Think carefully about it. You can pretend feeling good and suppress your feelings, but you can't fake your vibration.

Maybe an interesting thing.. I decided that I didn't longer want my ex a few months ago. Before that, I have tried to attract him for 5 months and I never dreamt about us getting back together. I always had dreams in which he disappeared in the end. Since I stopped working on attracting him, I had three much more positive dreams about him. So I guess I was resisting it all the time and since I stopped focusing on it, I dropped resistance and allowed my dreams about him becoming more positive.

Thanks Sanshi

This really resonates with me. I am trying trying trying but in reality maybe I am resisting not creating.My honest answer was yes to all those questions.

So if I just put it out there now ,believe and Trust and stop focusing on her,be happy ,have fun etc ,should that work? X

I'm not completely sure about that myself. But if I would tell you that you have to stop focusing on her, would you do it? I guess you wouldn't. At least, I wouldn't in the beginning of my journey. Abraham teaches that you just have to get happy and all the good stuff comes. That's easy with parking spaces and free coffees, but harder with someone who REALLY mean something to you. So I think it would be the best way for you to clean up your vibration and if you feel at some point that you did all the work and you don't longer feel the need to focus on her, you can get off the subject and just trust. But you can't do that, if you doubt that she will come back. You first have to come to a place where you can feel good about her and your focus is more on what was beautiful with her in the past, on what you want to do with her when she is back, what you like about her and so on. It takes a little time to do that, but just because you can't believe that she will be back for sure right now it doesn't mean that you can't believe it in a month.