There's no need to lose it. Since when does your happiness hinge on a text message?

It's odd and inconsistent. It's not that I m unhappy it's not making it easy to stay in the vibe.

SydneysMommy wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I don't think this matters. I text so many people and there's no pattern to how often or not they reply, or indeed how often I reply to them. If it's a romantic relationship we attach more meaning to it. And then we give ourselves stress which upsets our vibration.

I get that..me too, but in the manner of attempting rekindle with someone is on assignment in another state it's driving me nuts.

On a vibration stand point i don't even know where to begin in holding a vibration. End results I can focus on for a bit, then reality sets in. We already felt like we lost value in ourselves after a break up ...so when you start getting back to the "hey wait a second I'm worth the notification...or ugh huh not again...or who has time for this...or work for what's important". Vining and holding your self respect battle in your head.

It's like accepting any behavior just to say but he still calls is ok...nope! It's not ok you don't want anything right, you want everything and even better and it cannot develop on it being ok to shake my head up on convenience.


It's rough knowing how to vibe AND teach somehow to treat you at the same time.

You don't have to teach him. You teach him with your vibe and by overthinking things like that, you include it in your vibe/future. You wondered about his behavior a few days ago and now, he gives you more reason to wonder. It's perfect LoA.

Sanshi wrote:

SydneysMommy wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I don't think this matters. I text so many people and there's no pattern to how often or not they reply, or indeed how often I reply to them. If it's a romantic relationship we attach more meaning to it. And then we give ourselves stress which upsets our vibration.

I get that..me too, but in the manner of attempting rekindle with someone is on assignment in another state it's driving me nuts.

On a vibration stand point i don't even know where to begin in holding a vibration. End results I can focus on for a bit, then reality sets in. We already felt like we lost value in ourselves after a break up ...so when you start getting back to the "hey wait a second I'm worth the notification...or ugh huh not again...or who has time for this...or work for what's important". Vining and holding your self respect battle in your head.

It's like accepting any behavior just to say but he still calls is ok...nope! It's not ok you don't want anything right, you want everything and even better and it cannot develop on it being ok to shake my head up on convenience.


It's rough knowing how to vibe AND teach somehow to treat you at the same time.

You don't have to teach him. You teach him with your vibe and by overthinking things like that, you include it in your vibe/future. You wondered about his behavior a few days ago and now, he gives you more reason to wonder. It's perfect LoA.

What you mean, give me an example if you don't mind.


It started off with that weird message he sent, then he was majorly considerate, but our conversation was drifting off... now he is a goner and my pride won't let me reach out to keep being unanswered or ignored.


It's so odd. He will initiate contact and then don't reply. But his initial contact is super sweet...smh.

I feel like I'm gonna react negatively when he reached again..like listen dont text unless you are gonna reply or just avoid him all together until he approaches me with consistent behavior..this what I want!😭😭😭😭😭this is nuts!

Thanks in advance for the support btw

Sanshi wrote:

For example this thread you started: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=3596 (there was another one, but I couldn't find it). You said it confused you and now he offers you more confusing behavior. Why are you still so focused on what is? You try to analyse every single piece and on the way, you seem to forget that you are a creator.

I haven't forgotten I'm the creator. But I also don't forget free will. So if I am influencing him through loa I know I'm going about it correctly because he is here and there are advancements!

But my influencing doesn't overshadow his free with to respond to it the way it makes sense for him... considering he is HIS own creator.

This is where acceptance and unconditionally loving someone confused things because I don't accept being merry go rounded...does this make sense?

I feel like our imagination shouldn't ignore our desires.i desire not being confused or ignored.

So focused on what you want right..I'm getting it but with odd spin offs..like it's not balanced. That's where I need help.


Im baking a cake...I know it's almost out the oven, but then the oven cuts off...but the cake is there just soggy batter.

I'm excited to eat cake.. so how do you hold the excitement when it's a pan of doggy batter.

Lol, this was the best analogy I could come up with!