Hi shy, love youself and spiritual hustler,
   If this have a Thank you button I would press it so badly. Thank you thank you thank you!!!! I know I'm not really good at loving myself because honestly I love other ppl more than myself. I went to have movie with my friends, tried to be happy as I can. It seems a lil hard. I posted my problems at other forum and they just ask me to leave this relationship. I know deep inside of me knows that we're meant to be. They say he don't love me since the beginning but I know he always love me and before month ago he loves me like he's afraid of losing me. I wanted it to happen again. But today's the last day , he's leaving moro. He wanted to come find me but his friends keep on staying at his house. Argh. Is there any way that I can be more focus on what I want? And stop caring about the problems? I tried to watch the secret movie to keep myself stay positive. I got scolded because they say I'm stupid and shouldn't just hold on..one of a member from that forum said that I'm a noob of loa and stopping others to reply to my post... as she says that I'm a teen. I'm just trying to learn loa and trying to use it to get what I want. I don't give up easily. And I do love myself, it hurts myself when I give up on him. (I'm trying to express what I feels inside, it may sounds crazy or what). I really appreciate all of you, you guys tried to teach me and didn't give up on me. Even some words are harsh but I know you guys are helping me. Thankyou thank you! I know how he treating me now is what all I attracted. I know I can change it! I just need to love myself more! Thankyou once again!

Shy wrote:

Yeah, I know that. Some people think in that way too. I was also said by a stupid one that I could never attract him back because my guy didn't love me but I know we are meant to be, because whenever I look at him I feel something different. I know I can attract him back because I already had attracted him two times.
I suggest you IGNORE those people & do work improving your vibes. My parents were finding a match for me & told me they're considering my marriage next year begining. I ignore this situation & focusing only on attracting him back so that I could atleast tell my family about him.You're already in a good state, you've time to work on it as long as you want.

 
Shy, thankyou for being there. I'm so thankful. But I got a situation here. He said he's tired and frustrated of our relationship. He wanted to break up with me. Even signs ask me to giveup.. damn, what should I do? He's leaving moro. Yet, he don't even want me to send him off...is there any hope for us?

hey hisoneandonly

if it gives you hope ..
my ex he broke up with me , abused me verbally, treated me like dump for many months. i cried rivers and begged him to not break up with me. It was back when i was a mouse of girl with no existence.

1 year later , he begged me to take him back when i was no longer interested in him. 
and all this happened when i had no knowlegde about LOA.

Why he came back ?? Because i became stronger now. i give **** to his existence.
shy is right that dont force him or beg him, he will be more repelled. 

Let him go. Give him space. while you two are apart. be happy and pursue your life goals.
 

ArKa wrote:

hey hisoneandonly

if it gives you hope ..
my ex he broke up with me , abused me verbally, treated me like dump for many months. i cried rivers and begged him to not break up with me. It was back when i was a mouse of girl with no existence.

1 year later , he begged me to take him back when i was no longer interested in him. 
and all this happened when i had no knowlegde about LOA.

Why he came back ?? Because i became stronger now. i give **** to his existence.
shy is right that dont force him or beg him, he will be more repelled. 

Let him go. Give him space. while you two are apart. be happy and pursue your life goals.
 

Omg arka! That is so inspiring! It makes me happy to hear that gosh. Thanks for commenting your story for me to gain hope in it thank you!!!!!!!
 

Do you really want your guy?
If yes! Then don't fight with your friends over this. They only want to protect you against odd things according to their own theory based on what they see, they don't know about Loa thing I guess so don't hurt yourself on this. This way you're just creating distance between you & your friends. Good friends are rare,

Say them what they want to hear and end the topic, never discuss it again... You just need to work on what we've been saying to you.

Edit: if you want to practice Rs, read Amargi hilier book which you can find it free on Google or buy Lanie's 'Burn him with your desire' ....

Last edited by Shy (9/20/2015 11:30 am)