wolf wrote:

When you ask, it is given.
You asked for a sign, you got it.
You asked for something specific that you had little resistance to, and the universe delivered. 

I used to get all excited about signs too, sometimes I still do,
but now what they tell me is that in that moment I'm not being as Allowing as I could be,
so I only get a "sign" coming through the path of least resistance because
I'm not letting anything other than that in!
To me this "sign" is a SIGN that I could focus better.

 
Thanks wolf.... What do you mean focus better? Focus  on what I want? x

Butterfly16 wrote:

Ok!! Well I know what I want! My career and my man xx

And while you know that you want that, you are still more focused on the absence than of the presence of it. Else it would be there.

Butterfly16 wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Butterfly16 wrote:

Ok!! Well I know what I want! My career and my man xx

And while you know that you want that, you are still more focused on the absence than of the presence of it. Else it would be there.

So do I just get on with life be happy and not concentrate on them and that's when it will appear?
 

I think (and that's just my personal opinion here, I don't really have experience with it) that it depends. I wanted an ex back a few years ago, he never came back, but I didn't do the vibrational work. I think when you did the work and you feel good about them and then you drop the subject completely, they come. It's interesting, I just thought about this ex. He broke up with me maybe in August, I found LoA a month or two later and started to apply it (or what I thought back that it means to apply it). I tried until January and then gave up. I was tired of doing it and moved on with my life. In May, I manifested a free trip to Poland. It was exciting and I felt good at that time. Maybe a months later, he texted me. Then last summer, I was very happy, because after being desperate about what to do with my life, I finally found my path for the next few years. And he texted me again out of the blue after not hearing from him for 3 years! We only were together for 2 1/2 months and got together the second or third time we met - he still had my email adress after all that time (I don't think I had his btw..lol). He wasn't what I wanted anymore, but when I think about it, he always came when I was happy. Excerpt from the story what feels right to you. But being happy is never the wrong path, that's for sure.

Butterfly16 wrote:

Thanks for that Sanshi.... It's true things always happen when you least expect it, and when your happy!! Can I ask then, with the LoA with the things I want to manifest do I just stop focusing on them and and be happy in living my life as normal, or do I need to think about them sometimes to manifest them if that makes sense? X

My experience is that it's enough to think about a thing once with feeling and then forget about it. That works for me every single time as long as I don't doubt or notice its absence! The problem is that you already thought much about your guy and the breakup and so on. It depends on the vibration you are emitting relating to your guy. Do you feel good about him, appreciate everything you like about him, feel the joy of having a relationship with him? If that are your predominant thoughts and feelings about him, you can go off the subject and expect him to come. If that's not the case and you feel his absence and miss him and notice that he isn't there, I'm not sure if he would pop up in your life again or not. I never tested it consciously, so I don't know. But Abraham says that when you get happy, everything comes to you and Neville teaches that when you just feel that you are blessed, everything comes to you as well (it's basically the same thing). So you can either clean up your vibration on that subject and then concentrate only on your happiness and he will come or you can trust Abraham and Neville and get happy without cleaning up your vibration and watch what happens.