Sanshi wrote:

I don't say you should lie, but the point is that it simply doesn't work that way. "Okay, I pretend to be happy to get him back, so that he can make me happy". The only vibe that's the universe gets is the "he is not here" vibe. I know that you can't do it for you, if you just want him back, but I hope you will finally reach the point at which you finally just want to be happy - with or without him.
If you think the answers are way too easy, why don't you just try to implement it? It can't hurt, can it? Maybe my guy isn't there yet, but I know exactly why he isn't there yet. It's okay for me, I have time and I know he will come eventually. And maybe I'm "waiting" still for this guy, but I got exes back in my past and I know exactly how I went about it and it fits in perfectly with all my LoA experiences. It really IS easy. I focus on something that I like, get happy about it, forget it and it comes - every single time. But the minute I have doubts or worries that it maybe won't come, it doesn't come. So it IS really that easy, but you have to practice it a while and give it a chance. And even when you said that you wasn't refering to me (it felt strongly that way though), I haven't given up on my ex, a car could hit him and I wouldn't care, he could beg for me coming back and I wouldn't care - just to put this in perspective again.

The reason why I still reply to your posts is that I think that you have the potential to get to the level of Cherished. It was just one of your posts a while ago that made me think that, but since I read it I somehow believed that you can do it.

You have or haven't given up on your ex? Yah, I have zero intention on giving up

Sam wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

Sam wrote:

I once got a boyfriend back in six days using the LOA. All I did was start enjoying my life and every time he popped into my mind I told myself, "He's on his way." The reason it was easy was because I truly believed it would happen.

Ok.. Well I don't know how to just "truly believe".. So yah. It all sounds good, but I can't pound a belief into my head

Well, what have you been doing to try and build your faith?

Reading loa books/ forums/ etc.  trying to find Btf's. Writing, imagining, focusing on what I'm thinking about. I try to take appreciation for what is going well, finding other things to do.. Ec etc etc. I feel like I've done it all

Sam wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

Sam wrote:

I once got a boyfriend back in six days using the LOA. All I did was start enjoying my life and every time he popped into my mind I told myself, "He's on his way." The reason it was easy was because I truly believed it would happen.

I'm also interested in how long it was that you had zero contact before those 6 days. And I'm curious as to why you weren't able to do the same in the last scenario with your most recent ex

We were no contact for six days. And I am able to do the same with my most recent ex but I have too much resistance surrounding him. I had no resistance with the other guy.

But why does that matter? Because you want to compare it to your situation and explain why yours is different and more difficult because it's been so long? You have to understand that those factors don't mean anything. Those are the types of doubts that are holding you back.

My friend got his fiancé back after not hearing from her for two years. He didn't even know where she lived anymore. I was with him during the manifestation journey, when he had no proof that she'd come back but he persisted because it's what he wanted and he believed. Now they're happier than ever and when she came back they didn't even discuss the break up because he erased it from his past. They just picked up right where they left off.

Circumstances don't matter unless you give them importance. At some point you have to stop searching for proof and just jump in. And if you do, you'll be rewarded greatly.

Love that. <3
 

Sam wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

Sam wrote:

I once got a boyfriend back in six days using the LOA. All I did was start enjoying my life and every time he popped into my mind I told myself, "He's on his way." The reason it was easy was because I truly believed it would happen.

I'm also interested in how long it was that you had zero contact before those 6 days. And I'm curious as to why you weren't able to do the same in the last scenario with your most recent ex

We were no contact for six days. And I am able to do the same with my most recent ex but I have too much resistance surrounding him. I had no resistance with the other guy.

But why does that matter? Because you want to compare it to your situation and explain why yours is different and more difficult because it's been so long? You have to understand that those factors don't mean anything. Those are the types of doubts that are holding you back.

My friend got his fiancé back after not hearing from her for two years. He didn't even know where she lived anymore. I was with him during the manifestation journey, when he had no proof that she'd come back but he persisted because it's what he wanted and he believed. Now they're happier than ever and when she came back they didn't even discuss the break up because he erased it from his past. They just picked up right where they left off.

Circumstances don't matter unless you give them importance. At some point you have to stop searching for proof and just jump in. And if you do, you'll be rewarded greatly.

Ok.. Well 6 days no contact is the blink of an eye. Just saying. And like I said.. I can't just make myself believe something! Do I believe he is gonna show up today? No I don't.. And I can't make myself believe that he will either. Ok.. So you could do it with the most recent ex, but you hold too much resistance?? You either can or can't. .. I'm sorry but these are different circumstances. I'm not willing to give up and just settle for someone else.

Sam wrote:

Well if you believe that circumstances make a difference then that's fine but it's only making things harder for you. It's so much easier when you understand that you are the one who created those circumstances so there's no reason you can't change them. If we differ in this belief then I simply will be no help to you. Good luck on the rest of your journey. 💜

Well of course it's easy for you to say that. But it's all good.. I'm just confused as to why you weren't able to drop your resistance as far as your most recent ex.. Considering circumstances don't matter and that this is so easy.