wolf wrote:

TheDaisyguy wrote:

wolf wrote:

So he said "Bla bla bla bla bla bla bla...".
That's the only thing that this is.

Focus on what YOU want.
Take from this what you prefer, a la he was happy to talk to you and he's not closed to the idea.
That's wonderful.
And disregard everything else because that's not serving you.

If you're thinking that what he said is some kind of "truth",
then really, there are lots of truths in the world, some of which you like, some of which you don't like,
and it would be beneficial to be more picky about the truths you include in your vibration.

"Did I do that with my visualization?"
Well, what you did is raised your vibration, which he then perceived on a nonphysical level.
Visualisation is just a tool to help you feel better or good about whatever,
it doesn't make anything happen,
what "makes stuff happen" is your vibration.

Loving the answer!
I feel as though the conversation we had didn't lower my vibration, yea I was anxious for a bit but not as I would've been, say, a month ago. I know I'm creating our relationship again and in the meantime I'm just having fun. I keep wondering what it would be like to be the first out of my close group of friends to get an old lover back. At first I was just visualising non stop and doing SO MANY things but nowadays I just write once or twice a day in my journal. The only thing that sort of deters me is the time element but still I'm so sure.... 

But what is that "time element" telling you?
"You're out of the vortex!",
because if you were in the vortex, you wouldn't feel any kind of rushing because it would just feel wonderful where you already are.

I used to encounter that "time element" before I had any kind of interaction at all with my person,
and I really started looking at where that came from and I discovered that it came when I was out of the vortex.
Every time I was in, I felt great, I felt like where I was was okay.
There is a thought somewhere in your head that is causing you to get anxious about the timing of it.
If you can find that thought and soothe it, you will feel better and have an easier time getting into the vortex.

What is it that's making time so important?
Are you thinking there's competition somewhere? That someone might come and snap your partner away?
Are you wanting to be with them by a certain time so that you could spend free time together?
What is that thought that brings time into this?

I'm guessing all of those but not really, even when he says he's been with people (I've been with people too) he quite literally said i've never been off his mind all this time, he said he was really worried about me. I don't think there's going to be competition, at least not NOW but if he does sort of move on then yes. I just answered my own question, LOL.

Thank you Wolf and Inlove for your replies! I'm feeling a lot better!