I'm on a dating app. The guy that I am currently pursuing had 2 of his friends contact me via the dating website. I told them that I previously dated their friend.

The guy appeared in my reality probably 2-3 months after those interactions.

Sanshi wrote:

The universe isn't on your side, it reacts to your vibration. When you put out a happy vibe, you get happy circumstances, when you put out a depressed vibe, you get depressing circumstances.

Yeah, you thought about his best friend/focused on him and saw a post. So what? That's LoA in action and has nothing to do with your guy.

I may be completely wrong about that (only you can know), but I don't feel that you are close to manifesting him back. You have a lot of vibrational work to do and looking for signs doesn't help with that. People have different opinions on this, but I don't believe in signs. I only believe in manifestations, and when you manifest things that are related to your guy, but not your guy than it does mean for me (and that's my opinion, I doesn't have proof for this, but I have some experiences) that the universe matches your vibration. You focus is on your guy, but you don't allow him in, so you get things that are close.

Is there anything else in particular I could do in order to allow him in? He's already back in my life, however we are still not talking directly to one another.

Sanshi wrote:

Diamonte wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

The universe isn't on your side, it reacts to your vibration. When you put out a happy vibe, you get happy circumstances, when you put out a depressed vibe, you get depressing circumstances.

Yeah, you thought about his best friend/focused on him and saw a post. So what? That's LoA in action and has nothing to do with your guy.

I may be completely wrong about that (only you can know), but I don't feel that you are close to manifesting him back. You have a lot of vibrational work to do and looking for signs doesn't help with that. People have different opinions on this, but I don't believe in signs. I only believe in manifestations, and when you manifest things that are related to your guy, but not your guy than it does mean for me (and that's my opinion, I doesn't have proof for this, but I have some experiences) that the universe matches your vibration. You focus is on your guy, but you don't allow him in, so you get things that are close.

Is there anything else in particular I could do in order to allow him in? He's already back in my life, however we are still not talking directly to one another.

Of course:
- get incredible happy
- stop thinking about how he is not here yet
- start thinking about how he is here yet, but you can't see him, because your vibration isn't in the right place yet
- don't make it about him
- don't notice that he isn't here yet after you did it for 3 days
 

Thank you so much! Any tips to help me really feel like he is back?

Sanshi wrote:

Diamonte wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Of course:
- get incredible happy
- stop thinking about how he is not here yet
- start thinking about how he is here yet, but you can't see him, because your vibration isn't in the right place yet
- don't make it about him
- don't notice that he isn't here yet after you did it for 3 days
 

Thank you so much! Any tips to help me really feel like he is back?

Why don't you ask for tips to get incredible happy?
 

I have already been working on me ever since we broke up. In fact, I've done so many things that I would not have even thought of doing had we still been together. I'm working on my fitness, reaching my goals, shaping my future, and manifesting so many wonderful, positive things into my life. I have also attracted several guys into my life too. Not to mention, I am in a much better state than I was a month and a half ago when we broke up.

I now realize that this is all about me. Of course I can live without him. I am now, I have been, and before I met him of course I was living without him. Now I just have to let go and trust that I will be with him again.