Goes for Wizzo- Good to know we have similar stories, but I hope u wont repeat the mistakes I did. Just keep your calm. If she is msgng u, its no big deal, its OK. If she isnt, thats also OK. Just stop focusing on her, I know its very difficult, I used to behave like a mad girl and sulk sulk sulk all through but please dont do that. Consider her a good friend and be there for her whenever she wants, and PLEASE DONT LOOK DESPERATE. The one thing I noticed in my country that the moment u make a man feel "u are in love and need him" they just feel terrible and run away! Till the moment they chase u, there's a mystery which they love. Even after u are in a relationship, make things seem very normal, just don't make HER feel she's the center of your universe. Go out meet new people, just do anything to have a life, I mean she will realize that u have a life other than her and she will reach out more.

Love is very complicated my friend, I found the love of my life and lost him to my insecurities, do not feel negative abt your relationship, infact give her space, ask her "hope u are comfortable texting me, if not take ur time" The more u make her feel comfortable she will realize that u are there for her whenever she needs. Just control your emotions for the time being. Text her without any ego, just msg her once in a while asking if she was fine n needs any help, thats all..........u just hang on and give it some time, it will work out!!! It has to. There is no alternative to a true, understanding partner. Best of luck!!!

I used to feel this way too but now I've made peace with it. I've chosen H and that's all that matters in my reality. And this is despite him currently seeing someone else. Relationships form and break apart all the time and I know I can make him the happiest he's ever been so what's to feel guilty about? I'm enjoying visualising my relationship with him because it feels good to now and spontaneously has started to happen if that makes sense? I'm also keeping myself to chatting with other guys because it makes me feel good and since H is on his way back then I want to enjoy this bit of freedom I have right now haha. ps We should start a Sanshi fan club! :D Also Cherished and Wolf's posts I find massively inspiring!

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Sanshi wrote:

Scarlet_Kerouac wrote:

We should start a Sanshi fan club! :D

But first everyone should start their own fan club.

Yep ok, deal! ;)

I agree that quite a few fan clubs are needed up here.

You know what's really interesting to me is the way scenarios repeat themselves. Veronica once told me to focus on manifesting my guy so that once it did I could decide if I wanted to change my mind.

I manifested other guys and the scenario just seems to be on repeat so it's definitely not about him - I'm the common denominator. Quite an epiphany I must say empowering but also a bit of a bummer  because this raising vibration thing j won't lie it's work - because you always tend to want to go back to habit which is much easier and sometimes also the path of least resistance.

Sanshi I co-sign : you are a genius ! Along with the cherished and wolfs of the world

wolf wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Wolf has still to do some work to become a genius, at least within the rating system of this forum.

Yep, and I still have my vibrational work as well.
But isn't it great that being a superhero is a nice starting point, in other words, I'm okay with being here right now 

I have vibrational envy . Eventually I'll get there - there's just a lot of movement on my end these days and I just don't know where to focus. I feel like a dog running after its own tail at times.