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So, I was doing the 25 day challenge from Veronica in combination with Lanie's Pussywhip meditation but I kinda got lazy around day 11. I still did my affirmations, felt good about myself and was enjoying life but I wasn't following the challenge strict day by day anymore. I am currently dating someone else, and so is my ex but I still have very strong feelings for my ex and believe we are going to end up together. This made me confused. Then two nights ago I read this comment of Sanshi on a different topic on this forum (yes, I am mostly a secret reader to get my vibes up haha):
Sanshi wrote:
Something similar happened to me with the guy I'm with now in my vortex. When I met him, I wanted my ex back and when I fell in love with him, it confused me and I couldn't decide what I wanted. And I got a perfect reflection from him - he couldn't decide what he wanted. It was a constantly up and down between cuddling and "I don't know what I feel" and kissing and "I don't really want to kiss you" and "I miss you, but I'm not sure about what I feel for you". I totally manifested that with my own confusion. So it would be good for you to decide what you want very soon so that you don't have to experience the same. Why not going for both girl? You are the only one that thinks you have to decide, the universe doesn't thinks so. Go with the flow and watch what happens. If you feel uncomfortable with the new girl, you can still decide that it leads nowhere (I'm not suggesting to have both girls at the same time btw, not that someone misconceives it).
This made me feel so secure and powerful. That night I dreamt for the first time since months about my ex again, I dreamt that he texted me. It was really vivid and it felt so weird when I woke up. I smiled, did my affirmations and forgot about it. Then about 5 hours later when I came back from the gym (had a really good workout and laugh with my friend): BOOM. There it was! A text from HIM. It was the first time that HE initiated the contact (we broke it off last summer). First I was flabbergasted, but then I felt really secure because I knew this was the universe at work. Now we are still texting but I only message him back when my vibes are high
keep up your vibes, it really works!
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Thank you for pointing out my typing mistake in bold letters. Have to find it and edit it out, so that I can feel better.
Glad it helped you. It is really hard to write that off as coincidence. So congratulations. You are heading in the right direction.
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Sanshi wrote:
Thank you for pointing out my typing mistake in bold letters. Have to find it and edit it out, so that I can feel better.
Glad it helped you. It is really hard to write that off as coincidence. So congratulations. You are heading in the right direction.
haha well, even your typo worked for me! Because first, I read it as: Why not going for both, girl? ;) so thank you for that message !
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I read it that way as well and thought: "No, that's not my style."