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And instead, spend my time reveling in the feelings of all the things I want, including ideal relationship and ideal version of my guy?
Exactly, that's all you have to do in my opinion. You can of course script and visualise and so on, if you enjoy doing it.
Would a good idea be to make a list (so long as I'm still in the high flying, good place) of the things I desire, the qualities etc. of relationship and ideal version of my guy so that I keep up feeding the manifestation?
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That's a great idea. Especially because it's a reminder of what you want to focus on if you lose track.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
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Ok, thanks 
Now - any tips on how to "delete" when memories of the "past"/this unpreffered situation creep up threatening to be part of the present?
I'm finding that while here at work, and not able to fully focus my attention towards idealized version of things, that suddenly the unpreferred starts to creep in.
I've been catching self as immediately as possible and telling self to stop - that that's someone else's story/wrong movie, etc. and that that's not ME and my story...
Any other suggestions?
Thank you!
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Ok, thanks
Now - any tips on how to "delete" when memories of the "past"/this unpreffered situation creep up threatening to be part of the present?
I'm finding that while here at work, and not able to fully focus my attention towards idealized version of things, that suddenly the unpreferred starts to creep in.
I've been catching self as immediately as possible and telling self to stop - that that's someone else's story/wrong movie, etc. and that that's not ME and my story...
Any other suggestions?
Thank you!
Sometimes, it simply needs time to forget this stuff. I personally think it's beneficial to not work on the relationship immediately after the breakup. Healing first can be helpful.
When this thoughs come up, shift your thoughs to sea horses, roses and bees or other random beautiful stuff.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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I see your point - the thing is though that I'd already done all this work and healing and had gotten to a pretty great place in my life when this just came out of seemingly left field the other night - which is why I say it must be the shadow/echo effect - and it's just interesting how it popped up right when I got to such a great place.
But whatever - no point in analyzing it - it is what is is.
Besides - I don't really feel like we broke up - I actually feel like I got a really weird text the other night from a stranger (that I had created in my head) and not from my guy (that I know/loved from the past before I started miscreating) and that's that.
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I see your point - the thing is though that I'd already done all this work and healing and had gotten to a pretty great place in my life when this just came out of seemingly left field the other night - which is why I say it must be the shadow/echo effect - and it's just interesting how it popped up right when I got to such a great place.
But whatever - no point in analyzing it - it is what is is.
Besides - I don't really feel like we broke up - I actually feel like I got a really weird text the other night from a stranger (that I had created in my head) and not from my guy (that I know/loved from the past before I started miscreating) and that's that.
Yes, I feel that. I wouldn't have given you the advice I have given, if that weren't the case. But still..time can be beneficial. For example, I'm still living with my ex (I don't want him anymore) and the situation is very uncomfortable. A few weeks ago, it was very hard for me. But then I decided to focus on something else for a while (okay, I was in hospital and had pain, so it wasn't that hard ;D). Now, I see the situation differently and feel much better about it, even though nothing has changed on the outside. Just try to step away for a while. It doesn't have to be a long time. Sometimes, a week can make a big difference.
Lol..a weird stranger. I think that's a good thing that you don't have the feeling that you broke up.
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Hey - hope everything is OK with the hospital stuff and the pain stuff!!! And that you're completely well now!
Re: shifting focus - sure - like when I used to commute via subway and days it was so overcrowded and packed and uncomfortable I would go to happy place and start imagining I was on the beach, etc.
Re my situation - yeah totally like a weird stranger/wrong number - it's totally the guy I had painted him as in the recent past but since I had done so much work since we last saw each other and have been flying high with all these positive changes in my life, I forgot about it and assumed I was working on my manifestation of us living in same time and space again (that very well still could be going on the background) and having an improved relationship.
I suppose it's easier not to feel broken up because I wasn't in the ideal with him prior to this and we hadn't seen or spoken in awhile - so it's not like I've/we've gone from 100 mph to sudden crash stop, you know?
So can I just delete this from my record and pretend it never happened? Like it really was from a wrong person/wrong number?
And just quantum leap outta this bad scene by going back to the past that led up to it and pretend I received lovey replies to my texts and that all is and has been awesomely well with us this whole time?
Is that sort of the idea and process of deleting?
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One other thing - since I was working on that other manifestation of being in the same time and place, do I just also skip right ahead onto that too?
Feel as if he already lives here again and that we have the type of communication and interaction etc that I had previously wanted/been working on/want?
My whole life is going to change next month when I move - I'm going to go from being in the middle of no where suburbs (tough for a city gal!) back into the city - a new city I've never lived in before - and I am going to have all sorts of amazing opportunities to explore and enjoy so my vibe will continue to raise
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Hey - hope everything is OK with the hospital stuff and the pain stuff!!! And that you're completely well now!
Re: shifting focus - sure - like when I used to commute via subway and days it was so overcrowded and packed and uncomfortable I would go to happy place and start imagining I was on the beach, etc.
Re my situation - yeah totally like a weird stranger/wrong number - it's totally the guy I had painted him as in the recent past but since I had done so much work since we last saw each other and have been flying high with all these positive changes in my life, I forgot about it and assumed I was working on my manifestation of us living in same time and space again (that very well still could be going on the background) and having an improved relationship.
I suppose it's easier not to feel broken up because I wasn't in the ideal with him prior to this and we hadn't seen or spoken in awhile - so it's not like I've/we've gone from 100 mph to sudden crash stop, you know?
So can I just delete this from my record and pretend it never happened? Like it really was from a wrong person/wrong number?
And just quantum leap outta this bad scene by going back to the past that led up to it and pretend I received lovey replies to my texts and that all is and has been awesomely well with us this whole time?
Is that sort of the idea and process of deleting?
Thanks!
Thank you. I'm fine. It was just the appendix.
If you are able to ignore it completely, that's great. I think that will support your manifestation.
When your desire to live with him includes you being together than I see no reason why you shouldn't go for that. It includes everything else after all. No need for managing every little detail.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Glad to hear you're OK!
So - I've been thinking - if reality really is self created, which I accept it is, and if reality is a reflection of our thoughts and feelings and beliefs, which I accept it is, then really there is no problem here at all...
Because since it's all happening in my head (so to speak), then I simply change the script and my beliefs.
I accept that I attracted this experience because I was existing in a low vibration and not holding myself in the highest regard and highest esteem. Had I been in a place wherein I thought of myself as the shining star that I am, then it would not even occur to me to have had the thoughts, fears, suspicions, doubts I had and to have created adversely.
Were I holding a high vibration and holding myself in highest regard and esteem, I would have been impervious to this manifestation. It would have bounced off of me because there would have been no room at the inn LOL
So - if all of this is correct - then no big deal! No problem at all! Game on!
Just keep calm and know that I am the creator of my world, everything is in my control and I can script whatever I want into being, right?
By adjusting my vibration and my beliefs, correct?
And I just command a new, preferred experience/reality that is in alignment with my highest, purest, truest self and good...right?
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Glad to hear you're OK!
So - I've been thinking - if reality really is self created, which I accept it is, and if reality is a reflection of our thoughts and feelings and beliefs, which I accept it is, then really there is no problem here at all...
Because since it's all happening in my head (so to speak), then I simply change the script and my beliefs.
I accept that I attracted this experience because I was existing in a low vibration and not holding myself in the highest regard and highest esteem. Had I been in a place wherein I thought of myself as the shining star that I am, then it would not even occur to me to have had the thoughts, fears, suspicions, doubts I had and to have created adversely.
Were I holding a high vibration and holding myself in highest regard and esteem, I would have been impervious to this manifestation. It would have bounced off of me because there would have been no room at the inn LOL
So - if all of this is correct - then no big deal! No problem at all! Game on!
Just keep calm and know that I am the creator of my world, everything is in my control and I can script whatever I want into being, right?
By adjusting my vibration and my beliefs, correct?
And I just command a new, preferred experience/reality that is in alignment with my highest, purest, truest self and good...right?
Exactly. Beautifully put. 
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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