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Hi everyone
I wanted to make my own thread so people can help me stay on track if I don't see anything happening.
I actually want to attract back a guy I passionately dated last year for 6 months.
Now my ex co worker would tell me to move on etc because he never really opened up to me and I never saw his place (lives with parents, he has anxiety from a previous relationship (he's perfect people! but she abused him!) and he's a teacher aide so he lives with them) and sometimes I rarely saw him or heard from him. But our chemistry and conversations were amazing!!!
I want him back I miss him but getting those doubts out of my head are going to be hard. He still appears online on my msn Skype but I don't know if I'm still added.
Here's to continuing to work on myself and getting D back!
****please read my latest message down below***
Last edited by Bellecat (11/27/2016 5:14 pm)
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Good luck!! Stay positive, this is a great page and full of love and support. You got this!!
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hey girl!
first of all,
screw all those people who tell you to move on.
what do they know about your relationship? it's easy for them to say cuz it's not their relationship. of course I know there are genuine people who were saying it out of a good cause, they may be worrying about you. but really, YOU know your relationship the best, do what YOU want, and what makes YOU happy.
YOU ARE THE CENTER OF YOUR OWN UNIVERSE!
you can create what you want, what you desire
don't think about "now" or "present", that doesn't matter.
What matters is how you treat yourself now, how you can focus yourself on POSITIVE energy.
FOCUS on your desire.
Nothing is impossible.
We will keep you on track ; )
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I'm feeling down because I've had my shift today and tomorrow taken from me (pay week ends today so I lost yesterday and today in pay)
Right now it's be nice to lay in bed with him and snuggle on this rainy morning. He's nice to cuddle in bed
I need to stop the thoughts that he disappeared because he found someone else.... I swear I saw him at my local shopping centre at Christmas when I was rushing to a cafe to talk to the boss, holding hands with another woman... We never went out like that.
Another part of me says he fell in love with me and he freaked out. I saw the way he looked at me. One night after I'd gotten home from work and we were texting he came over for cuddles and he dressed nicely.... For me!!
I don't know how to get over all these doubts
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Hey sweetie have no doubts, remember everything that is positive and create you own love story every min of the day. Imagine you are together right now and all the time. Your in that perfect relationship. Do the remote seduction that Veronica counsels about on her you tube. Just focus focus focus. Take care of you, exercise, eat right, sleep good, love your life in all areas. Stay positive all the time. Stay totally away from everyone that is negative. Dont' talk to anyone about what your intentions are. I have had the same experiences. Piggy720 is exactly right. He is your love. Watch veronicas videos, buy her books. read the posts on this site. watch the secret, pray and thank the universe for the life you are living with your love. Live in the now and not wanting or desiring. act as if keep posting, we believe in you and your love, we are here for you, everyone has been so thoughtful to me. Spread the love. Remember love is greater power than anything else especially in the loa
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I am with Piggy720
Screw people and their opinions you focus on what you want and you will get it. you really have to focus on as if. That part has been hard for me but I will say that this group has the best people to help you and get you moving in the right direction. Do Not Give Up ON What You Want.
I am Antonio's wife he is the LOVE of MY Life.
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Hey bellecat.... I hear u, I'm in a a situation where my ex got scared cos he was cheated on by his ex and as we got serious he got scared too! So we went separate ways to give him space and time to figure out want he wants! It's been a month of nc. I too have stupid doubts.. Like is he seeing out girls etc, but I choose to ignore them negative thoughts! And like you some of my mates are like forget about him you can do better!!! But I know in my heart he is my soul mate and I love him soooo much and I know things will work out. Just hang on in there and stay positive. I have down days too but then I snap out of it cos I don't want the negative thoughts to influence me. We are all here for each other and we will all get thru this xxxx
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I saw a guy who looked like him today in the library and I didn't say hello to check it was him. This guy also had a wedding ring on...
I feel lost about what to do. I'm not 100% sure it was him. I'd be crushed if it was all a lie and he had a wife.
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How about simply assuming that it wasn't him and not focusing on it?
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wolf wrote:
Bellecat wrote:
I saw a guy who looked like him today in the library and I didn't say hello to check it was him. This guy also had a wedding ring on...
I feel lost about what to do. I'm not 100% sure it was him. I'd be crushed if it was all a lie and he had a wife.Don't make assumptions.
Even if was, what's that matter? You are the creator.
Thanks, I'll start running to get happier
Last edited by Bellecat (7/11/2016 7:01 am)