I think it would be best for you to read up a bit more on LOA so you can gain a clear understanding of how it all works in terms of your mind and how it creates etc. There's lots of information online and even in this forum.

It does sound crazy but once you learn more about LOA it will make sense. We are taught all our lives to think a certain way which creates by default. LOA teaches us to overwrite our usual beliefs and thought patterns to create deliberately. Thats why it can feel strange at first but once you get in the practise of doing it, it becomes easier.

Just make the decision to forget the circumstances that led you to where you are and focus on what you want your future to be. Just accept what's happened if you can't delete and forget, but don't put any energy towards thinking/focusing on the past. What's happened has happened, its over. Why think about it?


 

Okay so the steps are:

Ask - set the intention for your desire (your new preferred reality)

Believe - believe it is done and you already have it, feel the feelings

Receive - allow the universe to deliver your desire by letting go of resistance

So you don't need to do anything with the past, you don't need to fix it... Just focus on the future you want. Once we set our intention, our only job is to live as if we have it - if we are thinking of our past then we aren't really living in the state of our desire fulfilled.

But if forgetting the past doesn't feel good to you, then you can rewrite it/fix it - there's no harm to do that if it makes you feel good!

The reason people say forget the past is because it often brings up hurtful feelings and lowers vibes, also reminds us that our loves aren't here and then we acknowledge and give our attention/energy to the absence of them - which creates more absence. We don't want to be doing that. But if you need to revisit the past to rewrite it in order to be able to focus on your preferred reality, then that's okay if it makes you feel better.

I hope this makes sense and answers your question.

Last edited by PowerOfLove (7/10/2016 10:06 pm)

PowerOfLove wrote:

The reason people say forget the past is because it often brings up hurtful feelings and lowers vibes, also reminds us that our loves aren't here and then we acknowledge and give our attention/energy to the absence of them - which creates more absence. We don't want to be doing that. But if you need to revisit the past to rewrite it in order to be able to focus on your preferred reality, then that's okay if it makes you feel better.
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That's exactly it. If you can't stop thinking about the past, rewrite it. But it would be better to just stop thinking about it. I found out that it gets easier to forget the past when your vibration is high. You don't feel the need to think back, because you feel so happy in the now.

Thank you to everyone for reading and replying   I'm very grateful to have your support!!!

So, to be clear, I just moveon.com about all this...I just skip ahead...and I just act as if I have all the things I desire - including the ideal relationship with the ideal version of this person?  And that's it?

Thank you!

Ok, so, I just delete, delete, delete that this happened (Cherished's "Forget the Past" post is so awesome!!!).

And instead, spend my time reveling in the feelings of all the things I want, including ideal relationship and ideal version of my guy?

I actually am doing/feeling pretty well given this whole thing - I've not let it get me down one bit - just focusing on feeling awesome and amazing about myself and about all the wonderful exciting things in my life.  So it's not like I'm in a low place and need to get out.  Just want to make sure I stay where I am

Would a good idea be to make a list (so long as I'm still in the high flying, good place) of the things I desire, the qualities etc. of relationship and ideal version of my guy so that I keep up feeding the manifestation? 
Thank you!