holistichealing wrote:

Just continue on your journey. Give gratitude for all you have created and live through every moment. Have fun setting up your living space, your safe space. Let your creativity flow as you do so. Send him lots and lots of love, he is with you always. You have not lost him.

Enjoy this incredible journey that will create this wonderful relationship. Continue to laugh and do all that you enjoy. I like to dance and sing. I like to walk in nature. Through this journey you learn we are all connected because of the energy. So his presence is always with you. The loa is a very spiritual thing and I truly am enjoying what I am leanring. So go out there and continue to create beauty. I love you, sweet one.



Rose 🌹

Love this, because it's true we are never without our love, once a connection has been made in love, it cannot be undone.  Sending them love no matter what is a lovely thing to do and will change things.
 

Meaning - do I just toss it up to someone else said what was said and it wasn't him at all? And just revert back to my old, preferred thinking and version of him?

And somehow pretend like this has never happened at all?

So don't think about why it happened (creation and echo effect etc) and don't think about how awesome my reply was and how it will affect him and how he will come around and choose me etc

Think of none of this? Just somehow proceed from the place of all is well???!!

Forget the past (you can remember the moments that make you feel good though!). You can do whatever you like as long as it makes you feel good. Focus on what you do want, forget everything else. Script if it makes you feel good. Rewrite the past if it makes you feel good.Think about how awesome your reply was etc if it makes you feel good. The key here is to FEEL good and feel as if you are already living the relationship you want with him . All your power is in the now - what you think about and feel now is what you will create!

 

You don't need to necessarily do anything specific to fix your past, its done and over with so the less you focus on that the better as it doesn't serve you. However, if you find it difficult to not think of the past then you can script/visualise etc to rewrite it so that you can feel better about it.

If you feel you need to visualise a fix to this then you're concerning yourself with the "how" your desire will manfiest, the best thing about the universe is that it does the hard work for you! There are millions of ways your desire can come about (ie. your past can be fixed), ways we can't even imagine... So thankfully we don't need to worry about that since thats the universe's job . All we need to do is think of what we want and focus on that feeling we will have after receiving it - the how's and when's are not our job.

You can just go ahead and visualise/script/think about what you would like in the future, your past has no relevance to this anymore as long as you don't let it 

Last edited by PowerOfLove (7/10/2016 7:49 pm)

mave wrote:

Ok - so just let go of all of this as if it never happened because it's the past - doesn't serve me to put time or attention or focus on it and just focus on what I want as if this never happened?!?!

Exactly