RollingRock33 wrote:

holistichealing wrote:

RollingRock33 wrote:

Thanks guys. I read the links.

I sent her a snap of a thing I found (something she got me a long time ago..) she opened it 38 minutes ago. I updated my story long before... She didn't even look at it... she usually does.

I'm really starting to feel like this situation is impossible. It's like she REALLY wants nothing to do with me Pleaes help.

You need to give her space. Stop controlling the situation.

I want to stop worrying. I just want her back:/

You need to get yourself back first because you just sound so anxious. I sent you a video that can help.

RollingRock33 wrote:

holistichealing wrote:

RollingRock33 wrote:

I want to stop worrying. I just want her back:/

You need to get yourself back first because you just sound so anxious. I sent you a video that can help.

I'll watch it. Thank you. I'm just so scared that this stuff might not work. Gah I'm so dumb. 

I just want her back. It's hard to stay in hope when the situation seems hopelesss.

You need to ignore those lies because those are limitations you are putting on yourself. Also, stop criticizing yourself and saying you are stupid. Instead learn to be your own best friend and tell yourself everything will be fine.

Last edited by holistichealing (7/10/2016 1:54 am)

I don't think it's a matter of WHY we want someone back and what would change if we had them back. We either want someone or we don't, whatever those reasons are, are down to the person who holds the desire. If we can manifest a person back then we are more than capable of manifesting a whole new relationship with this person and changing them into whoever we wish. The who's, why's, when's or what's are irrelevant. You could want the worst person in the world back and that is still in the eye of the beholder. Nobody else is in a place to ask questions.

When I say this, I still believe we should always be open to receiving someone better. But the why's to why we want somebody back is nobody else's place to ask and is in fact irrelevant if the LOA is infact what we believe it to be.

Last edited by Em (7/10/2016 10:01 am)

Sanshi wrote:

Em wrote:

I don't think it's a matter of WHY we want someone back and what would change if we had them back. We either want someone or we don't, whatever those reasons are, are down to the person who holds the desire. If we can manifest a person back then we are more than capable of manifesting a whole new relationship with this person and changing them into whoever we wish. The who's, why's, when's or what's are irrelevant. You could want the worst person in the world back and that is still in the eye of the beholder. Nobody else is in a place to ask questions.

When I say this, I still believe we should always be open to receiving someone better. But the why's to why we want somebody back is nobody else's place to ask and is in fact irrelevant if the LOA is infact what we believe it to be.

I understand what you are saying and you are right, but I want to throw in that you can look at the WHY from a different angle. When you ask yourself the question why you want something, your answers will most likely bring to closer to your desire, because you start to sum up everything you like about the person and the relationship you had and that actives the vibration of it within you. So the question why is not to justify the desire, but to active the feelings of it and bring joy.

Which was my original point, perhaps not that well expressed.  I also wanted the OP to look at the difference between love and blind obsession - because I have been there myself and it did me no good at all.  I wanted that person back because of what I had invested in them. I hadn't thought of what I liked about him or why he and I would be good together.  

I thought if the OP looked at these questions he might be in a position to have a more healthy view, as at the moment all it is is "I want her back" as a mantra, as if life is nothing without this person in it. 

Last edited by PrettyFlamingo (7/10/2016 10:27 am)

I dont know if she's just doing this for effect. I cant figure out if that's it or if she actually wants me out of her life im so scared...