Jim Chien Beige wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

It's never about the action, it's always about your vibration. Yes, I know that I posted nearly the same thing not so long ago, but it's still true. Concentrate on what you want. Don't miss him, have him. What feels best to you? If it thrills you to have contact with him, go for it. If it thrills you to let him wait a bit and see what happens, go for it. You don't need our opinion. You have your guidance within. Listen to it, it is always right.

 
Sanshi, I finally understood that. Yesterday my BF texted me, and I didn't feel anxious or fearful. We had a nice small conversation about trivial things. I felt satisfied and finished my day feeling very good. And guess what? He texted me again at night wishing me a good trip (I'm going on vacation). Now I know he can feel my vibration. If I'm anxious, he is defensive. If I feel good he acts nice.

Yes, it's true. They feel it. I just wrote to a forum member that before I knew about LoA, I always felt that no one was there to talk to me, when I felt bad. But when I had exams and had to study, everyone wanted to talk to me. It's not that it's a conscious decision. Even my mother is never home, when I need to talk to her the most, lol and I know that she wants to be there for me.
It's really a good idea to be always in alignment before you start any action. I don't really want to tell my old irrelevant story here, but I think it's quite interesting. I feared I wouldn't ever hear from my guy again and it manifested without a logical reason (he was completely into me a few days ago). I attracted him having commitment issues (yes, it wasn't him, it was completely me) and I thought he would reply to my messages again, when I tell him that I don't want a relationship and that it's okay how things are. The content of the message was perfect and I thought about every word, but my vibe was fearful and nowhere near being happy with him. And guess what? He didn't reply. From a logical point of view it makes no sense, because we had a great time together. But from a vibrational point of view it's completely logical.

tameraroberts wrote:

That is an absolutely wonderful message.  And I totally agree don't read into the words.  Two I miss you's.  Oh my gosh I would be over the top thrilled.  Just be you and love yourself.  He totally does.  I agree think positive in every way.  It has not been long so the hurt is still there for you both.  So be careful with negative thoughts or words.  Just relax and feel love for everything.  Visualize you two together in total happiness and joy at being in every great situation you have always wanted.  Don't think about anything negative or sad about the past.  Focus on only good things.  Watch movies and listen to music that is up beat and positive in every way.  Stay away from anything negative in your daily life.  Vibration is absolutely key. 
Love is in the air.  I posted that on my fb.  I read your post and you gave me so much more energy to see it too.  I would recommend you get Veronicas 25 day challenge.  Follow it to the T.  Even if you two are together.  It will help you keep your thoughts on projects that keep your focus on what you really want. 
Happiness is a beautiful thing. 
And its totally possible with the loa. 
But its on you to do the work. 
Its not really work. 
If you love what you do. 
Please keep us updated on everything.  There are fabulous individuals on here.  I call them my angels.  The brush off our wings and we continue to fly. 
Also don't forget to thank the Universe for everything even throughout the day.  When you get down.  Focus on what you are grateful for.  Even if they are little things. 
I am here if you need someone.  But like I mentioned before there are many here to help you to succeed. 
 

Thank you so much for taking time to reply with such an  uplifting message! I'm at a restaurant waiting for my food with a big smile right now because  back to back they just played songs that reminds me of us and would remind him of me too! While I was in line I was imagining us coming here together and then those songs played!!! On the way to the gym this morning came a song on a playlist I made that I visualized us listening to together!! So I'm very happy and taking these synchronicities to heart! I did buy her books and am doing the 25 day challenge and I  am on day 16 I'm very excited the anxiety has been lifted yes definitely love is in the air girl yes! <3

That is fantastic. Pls reply!

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Awwweeee... Ace87.  You have so touched me.  I absolutely love your story.  You give me so much enthusiasm to keep up with my focus.  Its been rough.  I was flying so high yesterday and then a monkey wrench this week.  Hit Tues and then big time yesterday.  It has nothing to do with my love.  Has to do with my son.  I lost it and my focus for a few hours. But I came home and to thoughtful words from others on here and your words.  It could be a ugly situation and I am doing my best to give it only a positive vibration.  No matter what I have to keep my focus.  There is a lot I want.  And just like you there is 3 of us.  I was so warmed by your last post of you two getting together.  It has been since April that I broke up with him.  But only a couple weeks that I saw him.  He spent 3 hours at his moms hanging on my every word.  I think he tried hard to get attention.  It was uncomfortable but gosh he had to feel the love and passion I feel from me.  Because I was so fired up with it.  I saw he was so uncomfortable.  I don't think he realized how amazing I looked and how amazing I am now.  It has not been long but my confidence level is so much better than it has ever been.  My story is so all about the loa.  I absolutely believe in it totally.  It requires serious focus and drive.  A lot like getting in shape but with your mind then you need to be courageous and take action.  It may seem uncomfortable and crazy at first and most people will think your nuts.  But when you start to see and hear, feel and smell things.  It is so undeniable.  I love that you are hearing songs about you two.  I have things in my head I think of often about us.  The universe is really God to me.  I am a very religious person but I have realized that either myself or religion seems to really be negative to the whole scheme of this.  Because to me in religion there is so much doom and gloom.  We are sinners and so much judgement.  But this is the thing.  I am a mom.  I love my children and would give my life for them.  I believe God to be our literal Father in Heaven and his love is great and purer than ours.  So why would he not wish for us anything that we want.  Weather good or bad.  My religious beliefs so kept me down and feeling bad about myself.  But this view of the loa.  Is about how I believe God really is.  He loves us unconditionally.  Just like we do about our own children.  Don't get me wrong.  I am so not preaching.  I am just pointing out that this loa is pure love to me from God.  And it is so right and good.  It is so possible to live the happily ever after.  To actually be happy in all aspects of your life.  Sure there are bumps in the road.  But there are far more total crusing and loving life.  I wish we could see each other in person.  Because I know if I could.  I would so have screamed like a school girl the first text he sent you and then all the awesome things you have done to have him keep coming back to you.  I am only on day 5 of the 25 day challenge.  And I will keep it going and going til my love is ready and probably me also.  I know I need to tweak how I am dealing with outside issues and remain focused on my love and the family we are going to put together.  See last year.  He had a stroke.  We were struggling then.  Then out of the blue it happened.  I had no idea who I was to him.  I knew I cared about him.  Well long story short.  He had a issue after surgery and my son and I were with him.  I thought he was going to die right there in his home.  But we got him to a hospital.  He made me promise he would be transferred to the right one.  I went back to his home and cleaned up.  Said I would meet his mom and sister at the right hospital.  But I felt as I was driving as if why am I going.  Who was he to me.  I prayed it was midnight.  My son was home with his nana very upset.  I was torn.  Should I go.  And you know God or as you all would say.  The universe showed me our wedding day.  You need to know I totally love Cinderalla.  but I had never thought of my wedding day at all.  And those few moments I saw in my head were unforgettable.  I cannot deny what I saw.  It was magic.  So I have held onto him for months.  I know I attracted our breakup as I was so critical of how he was to me.  Instead of understanding his thoughts and working on me.  Especially like I am working on myself now.  Had I been doing what I am now.  I know we would be together.  And this is the thing.  We will be together soon.  And it will be My Cinderella Story with him my Prince Charming.  That maybe sappy to some.  But that is exactly what is going to happen for us.  Sorry if I went on and on.  But you had me so excited about your success I had to share.  To let you know.  LOA makes it all real.  Please stay in touch and let us all know how you are.  God bless and stay positive.