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- Ace87
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He contacted me but I don't know what to say or feel..
I am on day 15 today I went to get my hair dyed with the gift card I found from my ex last year and on the way I got a text message from him saying "Hey I just wanted to say I was thinking about you and I definetly miss you I hope you are having an amazing day wish everything worked out between us but I still miss you" and then as I was waiting for my haircut the 2 people before me were his name and middle name. I don't know what to reply and I know I should be happy he texted but when he said he wish everything worked out between us I felt that was the official break up line because we never had one I don't know it was just fighting and stopped talking. I wanted to text him but I wasn't feeling good about the message so I haven't replied. Any help I would appreciate of what to reply back via text or if to call or to keep going with no contact please thank you!
- Jim Chien Beige
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Re: He contacted me but I don't know what to say or feel..
Ace87 wrote:
I am on day 15 today I went to get my hair dyed with the gift card I found from my ex last year and on the way I got a text message from him saying "Hey I just wanted to say I was thinking about you and I definetly miss you I hope you are having an amazing day wish everything worked out between us but I still miss you" and then as I was waiting for my haircut the 2 people before me were his name and middle name. I don't know what to reply and I know I should be happy he texted but when he said he wish everything worked out between us I felt that was the official break up line because we never had one I don't know it was just fighting and stopped talking. I wanted to text him but I wasn't feeling good about the message so I haven't replied. Any help I would appreciate of what to reply back via text or if to call or to keep going with no contact please thank you!
Don't pay attention to those details. Focus on your end result. That text is just a reflection of your past thoughts.
Visualize your end result, and only that. He contacted you and that's a good sign. Words are just words.
Text him back cause you are working on attracting him. Don't push him away and treat him nicely.
Before texting him back, breathe, close your eyes and visualize only what you want. And remember: you are the creator of your life. You and only you decide the outcome. People change when our vibration change. Don't forget that.
Cheer up! He misses you and he's thinking about you in a nostalgic way.
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Re: He contacted me but I don't know what to say or feel..
To me he definitel has feelings for you. He misses you. Twice. If i heard this from my ex it'd give me AMAZING hope. No way I'd say ANYTHING like that to a friend. Id play it cool though since the break up is still fairly fresh;)
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And IMHO, if he says "I wish things had worked out", that, at least to me, says, "I still want things to work out".
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Re: He contacted me but I don't know what to say or feel..
Thanks guys I just get my anxiety get the best of me sometimes but this is something to be excited about that's right and is something positive. I relaxed before I sent a text and it said "Hey just wanted to let you know I still miss you too...eh just "SOMETIMES" lol i hope your day was amazing it was 7-7 so hopefully it was a good one! 🌟" the sometimes thing is an inside joke of ours. Hopefully that was an okay text
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Re: He contacted me but I don't know what to say or feel..
Happy thoughts! You are almost there!
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It's never about the words, it's always about your vibration.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: He contacted me but I don't know what to say or feel..
Thank you so much guys for responding! So Oh my goodness after I sent the text I let it go to the universe and did the visualization for the night also did a verbal gratitude list and had mentioned him and fell asleep. I just woke up to two messages from him an old pic of us from last year and a text saying "I miss you" !!! Should I send a pic back? I feel like we're just saying I miss you back and forth lol. So grateful that contact is open!
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It's never about the action, it's always about your vibration. Yes, I know that I posted nearly the same thing not so long ago, but it's still true. Concentrate on what you want. Don't miss him, have him. What feels best to you? If it thrills you to have contact with him, go for it. If it thrills you to let him wait a bit and see what happens, go for it. You don't need our opinion. You have your guidance within. Listen to it, it is always right.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- Jim Chien Beige
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Re: He contacted me but I don't know what to say or feel..
Thank you so much guys for responding! So Oh my goodness after I sent the text I let it go to the universe and did the visualization for the night also did a verbal gratitude list and had mentioned him and fell asleep. I just woke up to two messages from him an old pic of us from last year and a text saying "I miss you" !!! Should I send a pic back? I feel like we're just saying I miss you back and forth lol. So grateful that contact is open!
Keep it casual and nice. If that message feels good, send it. Don't rush things. Let him take the initiative at all times.
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