This is so normal I was doing that and I am telling you reading some of the post on this board has helped me. You really have to decide what you really want and focus on just that . The other things like doubt has no place in getting your man. Faith and Fear can live together. I have adopted the mindset that my guy is worth it so I have to Love myself so much that it will bring him back., We are both emotional so I know that he has feelings just like me . So focus your energy on bringing him back not repelling him if that's what you want.


Antonio's Wife

That's right you got this Susiewoo





Antonio's Wife

sis, 

like what everyone said I guess lol just have to focus on WHAT YOU FEEL about the relationship, and less about what THEY think about you/your relationship. because they don't matter right?
who's in the center of your universe?
YOURSELF  you create whatever you want girl <3 

Susiewoo wrote:

Thank you sis!  It's taken me a while to get my head around the fact that the other people in our 'movie' are only there because we created it that way.  Y'know the whole thing about how our vibration and thinking etc is what's creating our relationship as well.  So, it doesn't matter what they're wanting with us, it's about what we want with them?

that's exactly it!
but you know, I'm so good at encouraging people and putting them back on the right path, but when it comes to myself, I'd be like dead inside not knowing what to do lol.........it's difficult eh