GirlyGirl111 wrote:

But Sanshi, she's still saying that it's the essence that you want...put that out there and you'll get what you "really" want and it "might" be the specific person. She never says for certain. On the other hand Veronica says that it's 100% guaranteed. I don't think that's true either.

You're right...idk what my exes are thinking. I'm just saying that even if they were practicing loa...I honestly don't think that I would care...because I've closed the door for many reasons. For example one came back who used to be depressed, immature and a weed head. He came back confident, mature, happy. He stopped smoking weed. He had a successful career etc...and I still didn't want him back. Out of all of them it wouldn't surprise me if he did practice loa because we used to discuss it together in the past.

Idk I just think acting as if isn't healthy for me. I like to just feel as if it's happening(feeling good and believing). When I hear people setting out extra plates for dinner and talking to that person like they're sitting on the couch with them watching tv, I think that's a bit much....but whatever works for them cool.

Another thing, I've never acted as if or used any loa tools on my exes who came back. They just came back on their own. I wasn't thinking about them anymore. I'm almost to the point like the girl in the video that eventually I may not even want him anymore. I may just do what Abe has said about thinking about something else and stop making this my project. I've put it out there and I believe. Now I'm gonna let it go. Even Bashar says that.

She says that someone else could be a better match. But that doesn't mean that you can't have the person you want. Abe says you can attract a specific person, period. There is no maybe or sometimes. They always say you can have EVERTHING you want, no exception. If you want to set limations for yourself, you are free to do that.

It really is pointless to discuss your exes because you never know. I once got back together with an ex I thought I would never want again.

I already wrote everything I have to say on acting as if in this thread.
 

GirlyGirl111 wrote:

Not once did I say that Abe said that you can't attract a specific person. I said that she says yesss BUT....and there's always a but, period....and that was my point.

I mentioned exes because that's what this is about right? Exes? Specific people?

It doesn't matter what someone says anyways. We're all individuals and whatever we believe for ourselves is what we should go by. What we feel is right. At least that's what I'm doing now. I was only trying to help by giving my opinion but it seems that only certain people are responded to or valued on this forum anyways.

Yes, and I explained why I think that this but always follows.

Yeah, but you will never know what would happen if your ex would change his thoughts. So this discussion leads us nowhere. In the end, you have to decide if you want to believe that it's possible or not. No one can proof it. You can say about every single ex who comes back that it was coincidence.

I don't really get your point? I responded and if you don't value my response, just say it straight away, that's cool. I don't need to invest time in replying if nobody wants to hear it.

Wow..

This makes so much sense to me now. Although I have the desire my emotions have been all over the place because I want my ex so badly and I have seen how I attracted the break up. So the same way I attracted it I can bring it back.. This is the most helpful group ever .