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Can't seem to post in Lanies forum but anyway.. just wanted to know that when the relationship has manifested in physical reality.. do you guys continue to use Lanies method? Do you imagine him saying different things now?
Also my love has told me he wants to practice a particular religion.. he's never been really religious before but believes in God & I'm a spiritual being.. I want him to open his mind more to how I live & join me because I personally feel it's healthier.. I respect all religions & they can be beautiful but there's many rules & he's more a free spirit like me so I kinda don't want him to go down that road.. although I would support him if that's truly his decision.. as long as it doesn't come between us... by the way we are in contact - usually talk on the phone here & there.. haven't met up just yet.. so I'm thinking ahead of when we are together.. our lifestyles would be pretty different..
Also what if I want a particular response from somebody who is interviewing me but I don't know what they look like yet.. how would I do that? Like I wouldn't be able to picture them? Lol I'm talking about using Lanies method with this...
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It's never about the pictures, but about the feelings. So it doesn't matter how the people look like. In my opinion, Lanies method is the same as visualisation. You don't change the other person/put thoughts into their mind, you change your own vibration and your reality reflects that.
I personally think that you shouldn't ever stop using LoA in your life but you don't need any visualisation. Just focus on the good and ignore what you don't like and your relationship will be great.
You can try carefully to tell him about how you live, but be aware that everyone has their own way of living that feels right. Don't try to convert him. If he is vibrationally far away from your truth, it's impossible for him to get it.