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1 - Scarlet_Kerouac
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Lots of other guys popping up..!
I'm a bit confused..I still love my guy but a few other guys have popped into my experience lately, (just friends so far )all of whom are gorgeous, talented and interesting..and it's been a while since I've had any attraction to anyone else. It feels right to kind of ride the wave of this and see what happens if it ultimately helps with the 'letting go' part of things I guess it can only be a good thing? I've actually gotten to the point now..which even not long ago I NEVER thought I would where I'm open to the idea of meeting someone better, so it doesn't feel like I'm even just open to others as a way of getting H back..thoughts?
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Re: Lots of other guys popping up..!
If it feels good, go for it. It can be very helpful. And why refusing someone better? You wouldn't do that in other areas of your life, right? "No, I won't take the million dollar! I asked for 10000, I want my 10000." ;D
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
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Re: Lots of other guys popping up..!
It's VERY common for other guys to pop up or make a reappearance when you are on the right track. When you are at a vibrational high you start attracting like moths to a flame. I'm currently experiencing the same thing right now with all of these other guys showing up and wanting me.
To be honest I would say the frame of mind you are in right now and being open to better things for yourself is the perfect state for manifesting.
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Yay thanks Sanchi and Em! Haha yeah very true! It's fun isn't it? ;)
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Re: Lots of other guys popping up..!
Hi Scarlet, I'm glad you posted this! I too have also wondered about attracting someone who may be more a match for me. I know someone who seems to be on my same wavelength in a lot of ways and the Universe has definately been letting me know there are other men out there! But, I don't want to let doubt come in either in relation to being with my recent fella as I still love him very much. But I can relate to what you're saying there. Also when you're doing the visualisations and generally taking better care of yourself, feeling good etc you do become rather attractive and you will notice men do seem to take notice!!!
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Sanshi wrote:
If it feels good, go for it. It can be very helpful. And why refusing someone better? You wouldn't do that in other areas of your life, right? "No, I won't take the million dollar! I asked for 10000, I want my 10000." ;D
hehe, love this Sanshi!
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To be honest I would say the frame of mind you are in right now and being open to better things for yourself is the perfect state for manifesting.
Fabulous Em!
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thank you so so much for posting this
I'm going through the EXACT same thing as we're speaking right now lol......
But deep down I still love my guy, so I'm so scared it'll contradict my desire haha though I'm sure the universe knows what I want and it's just planning it out for me!
When you feel like negative emotions are taking over, "Breathe, Have Faith, Believe"
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Susiewoo & Piggy720, thank you for your replies and to the other lovely ladies who've replied you made me giggle n smile....you've confirmed what I was thinking and it's great to get that positive reinforcement. It's funny cos it can all make you feel like you're moving further away from your desire when others come on the scene but I think now the opposite is true. It seems to me that we've put out there to the universe what we want so it knows! Where I was getting stuck before was in not letting go of H in my mind. And having stuff happening with other guys is great as it shows you have let go! And if it then turn out that one of them IS better for you then things have turned out for the best. I still love H very much..I would love for us to be together once more but I think opening yourself up to the possibility that there may well be someone even better and having that abundance mind set helps with that certain level of detachment that is needed.
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Wow Piggy, you too!!!
Yes Scarlet, everything you've said, same for me, but I don't think of it in terms of getting someone 'better', I guess it's more like, someone who is just more suitable/suited to you? Maybe through this process and realising your own self worth, you raise your own standards as well?? You realise you're worthy for the BEST option for you/your choice??
But yeah, I still want to keep on doing what I'm doing for my fella but am just not as attached to the outcome? And guess what, that's probably exactly when you'll attract them!!!! lolol so I guess time will tell what happens to us?? But, it will be something wonderful!!!!
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