big_blue wrote:

So a guy I've previously dated who has reappeared into my reality (and something I want to pursue) told me last week he doesn't want a relationship since he just got out of one. However tonight I reactivated a dating app (the one we met on), and found that he has also reactivated his account and has updated it.

Now I'm not trying to let this affect my vibe-- I've been feeling good. I keep telling myself, 'he came back' and the thought of that alone has brought me to happy tears every time. I want him to date me, I've already asked the universe to help me out.

What can I do to not let this bring my vibe down? He came back - platonically - but I don't want that.

You are still completely focused on your now reality. It's not enough to visualise for 5 minutes a day and feel his absence the rest of it. When you look for the manifestation to come, it's the wrong vibe. When you notice that he isn't here yet, it's the wrong vibe. When you wait for him to come, it's the wrong vibe. It has to feel natural to you that you are with him now, then he has to come.