Em wrote:

Nobody is making fun of her. You put a negative spin onto everything I say.

How is encouraging her to waste more of her precious life healthy? It's not, and that is why moving on is important. People just don't like to be told to move on if manifesting isn't working out for them. The whole point of what I'm saying is she's probably not manifesting BECAUSE she's sat around desperately waiting for this one guy. Nobody should do that, because everyone is worth more.

To her it is worth it, to her it is important. That's all I'm saying. To tell someone to move on is not LOA talk at all. This is a LOA forum, so we should discuss these things from a LOA basis. We can face reality and find people to tell us to give up and move on, again from a non-loa perspective.

To her it isn't a waste. We never know what is going on in others lives or their vibration. So I don't think it's up to us to say when someone should move on!

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But whatever methods she is using right now aren't helping. If you think it's healthy for her to keep using the same methods after over 5 years without any success then I'm sorry but you are deluded. The universe won't forget that she wanted this dude back and moving on would be a good method in actually bringing him back at some point later down the line. So yes, I am talking in LOA terms. How many times do you hear about people manifesting all sorts of stuff including old exes months even years after they no longer give a ****? Then she could once again decide wether she even wanted him back because she could have already realised she CAN have happiness elsewhere.

iinikkii wrote:

I do think however, that this conversation is going no where. Gaining zero ground, and probably not very beneficial for anyone. I just wanted to say that it gets old being told you "gotta date other people" as if it's an absolute MUST, as if THATS the magic pill. We all have our own journeys and our own paths to follow. Just because one path is right for you, doesn't mean it's the ONLY path. I encourage everyone to do what feels right for YOU.. Even if it goes against the status quo. YOU know what's right for YOU!

I already said don't date if you don't want too. But most people who have been successful will tell you to manifest an ex you have to be open to the idea of your ex OR SOMEONE BETTER. I can tell you after years of being on a tonne of different forums these people who cling onto dear life of the idea of their ex usually fail.

Em wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

I do think however, that this conversation is going no where. Gaining zero ground, and probably not very beneficial for anyone. I just wanted to say that it gets old being told you "gotta date other people" as if it's an absolute MUST, as if THATS the magic pill. We all have our own journeys and our own paths to follow. Just because one path is right for you, doesn't mean it's the ONLY path. I encourage everyone to do what feels right for YOU.. Even if it goes against the status quo. YOU know what's right for YOU!

I already said don't date if you don't want too. But most people who have been successful will tell you to manifest an ex you have to be open to the idea of your ex OR SOMEONE BETTER. I can tell you after years of being on a tonne of different forums these people who cling onto dear life of the idea of their ex usually fail.

Actually Veronica has NEVER said I have to be open to the idea of him or someone better. Not even once.

That isn't the case at all.. While you have your opinion, doesn't make mine invalid. Your truth is your truth, mine is mine. However, since this is Veronica's forum I try to stick with the things she has taught me. I can read 100% proper 😚😉