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- Tizme
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Re: Is it normal for things to get worse before they get better?
Craigd88 wrote:
Quit playing games with this guy. If you want him, he's right there. Just talk to him. This whole thing about not answering or waiting till next day is just childish BS.
I hate when women play cat and mouse. He is already showing signs of wanting you but yet you wanna feed your ego some by dangling yourself in front of him like a horse chasing a carrot on a string. Either take him or move on. It's really that simple.
Yes this was blunt. I'm not the nicest guy on this forum.
Okay.... I don't think she is playing games. I actually see him as disrespectful because she needs some space and he is refusing to give that to her. I agree that if you really want him than you should be with him but if you really want to be single for awhile than be single. Just don't try to attract him back, that's not fair. Sanshi, maybe just be alone right now, maybe it's what you both need. I had an ex, and YES A MAN, play these games with me and it crushed me in the long run. I think you have to do what is best for you and focus on you. Forget him for a little while. Learn about LOA and use it for other methods.
This will be a success story!!!
- Jim Chien Beige
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Re: Is it normal for things to get worse before they get better?
Thank you all!!!
I will think about it during the weekend. I still need someone who could take care of my cat and dog for 1 week.
If it feels good to ask him, I will do that, without any expectations and as a gesture of peace.
Things detangled a little last weekend, now they are entangled again.
Tizme: I don´t want to be single!!! But I´m forgetting the main cause of our breakup, which is kind of a major issue for him (private stuff). And that issue requieres time to be solved, and also, he has to acknowledge the problem, which is the most difficult part. The cake is still in the oven, but I have the tendency to rush things out and I get frustrated if I don´t get what I want, when I want it. (I´m working on that).
Now I understand that I was attracting him back, and I got all the signs: him, always contacting, etc... And I got desperate because he didn´t tell me: "I´m an idiot, I want you back" the second time I saw him.
I´m learning valuable lessons with all of this.
And also, I´m learning about LOA.
I have manifested 2 people: 1. My mother in law who contacted me because I visualize her, and a roomate!
I needed a roomate TODAY, because I have to pay the rent, and TODAY he said yes! I´m staying. He has all the characteristics I wanted: he works all day, and he´s gonna leave all weekends. I visualize him last friday, and let it go. Problem solved!
Now I know that LOA works. I have to remember all the time that even though I´m not seeing changes, the universe is working backstage.
Thank you guys! I feel a lot better now.
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