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I'm on the right track; please help me finish strong!
Hey guys,
Wow! This has been quite a remarkable journey so far. Veronica, you are a blessing for creating your videos and this forum. Thank you. 
Long story short: I met my ex-girlfriend because we were what I finally realized to be almost exactly the same in vibrations. I attracted myself, and it's crazy! Please refrain from judgement here, as I must be brutally honest and blunt from the deeper-rooted meaning only so this goes faster...
At the time I met her, we were both crafted to be insecure, selfish, emotionally & verbally abusive when we don't get our ways, self-destructive, controlling and even dishonest. We constantly played games with one another. Our 8.5 month-long relationship has ended with me leaving her because I was unhappy & didn't trust her (over 2 months ago now). POSITIVES: We are also extremely physical people; we enjoy intense cuddles, sex, doing cute sappy stuff together, and going on adventures that evolve into sex.
Why do I want her back? Because she's the most beautiful woman I've ever met in my entire life, and I firmly believe that knowing myself and how much I have changed and have continued to change in extremely positive directions thanks to LOA. She is in a rebound relationship. She is a cutter and has expressed self-hatred for as most of her life. She is still in love with me but refuses to be friends with me and wishes to not talk after a messy breakup. She actually made it clear that I deserve to feel pain, so clearly she's angry and wishes me to hurt since shes showing off her relationship.
QUESTIONS:
1.) If I raise my vibrations very VERY high and she stays at a very low vibration, will I still be able to manifest her back into my life properly as my dream girlfriend if I am willing to make a massive positive influence on her? I heard that high vibrations attract high vibrations and low vibrations attract low vibrations. I have every intention to increase my vibration regardless; I just wish to have insight as to how this will impact my journey in bringing my girlfriend back into my life as my dream girl and helping her raise her frequency too. Is this going to help or actually hold me back with this particular girl?
2.) If she is at a very low vibration and has massive anger in her heart toward me but still loves me deep down inside, can I still influence her to remember our countless positive memories and show her that I love her and welcome her back without contacting her directly? Things will be much different now. I really just wish to know if my massive & overwhelming positivity and self-love and loving her and everyone around me will take her disturbingly large wall of negativity and anger down so that I may reach her.
I can't wait to hear from you guys!
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I prefer to think in parallel realities, so you don't have to worry about her vibration but only about yours.
If you don't want to think in parallel realities: I think you don't have to match her vibration, you have to match the vibration of the relationship you want. So don't worry about how she vibrates. If you are vibrating on the frequency of a happy relationship with her, she has to join.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Sanshi, you are incredibly helpful. Thanks so much my friend! Another question too: There's 7 steps to manifestation. Once I reach step 7 (allowance), can I send more of the exact same manifestation signals to the universe safely? Would that help me, or would it make me start over? I don't know how many I can have running at the same time?
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blessedwithautism wrote:
Sanshi, you are incredibly helpful. Thanks so much my friend! Another question too: There's 7 steps to manifestation. Once I reach step 7 (allowance), can I send more of the exact same manifestation signals to the universe safely? Would that help me, or would it make me start over? I don't know how many I can have running at the same time?
Are you refering to Bashar? I don't know. In my world, there aren't 7 steps. 
I like the ask, believe, receive concept. You ask automatically, so need to do anything in step 1. Then the universe delivers. Your desire is there. You don't have to do anything in this step either. The only thing you have to do is to allow it in and that means concentrate on your fulfilled desire. Feel the feelings of it, be the person you would be with your girlfriend NOW. Don't be the person who wants an ex back - you attract only more wanting your ex back. Be the person that is in a happy relationship with the most wonderful girlfriend in the world (the one you want, not another one). What you have to send to the universe are the feelings of the relationship: Love, joy, excitement. Focus only on that. That's everything you need to do. You don't have to say again and again that you want her. The universe knows that and will never forget. You have to live it now.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Sanshi, I love how you made it super simple. "Be the person you would be with your girlfriend NOW" perfect
This will be a success story!!!
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Sanshi, I love how you made it super simple. "Be the person you would be with your girlfriend NOW" perfect
I think actually that it's not that simple to get the meaning of it. It took me ages. But great that you like it.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Sanshi, I was born with Autism and have the blessing of learning and comprehending at very quick speeds if I am determined. I am a go-getter. With my existing basis of knowledge in LOA, you just answered so many questions for me in so few words. Thank you for making this so simple, you are inspiring change in my life!
Another several questions: What will listening to subliminal messages and vibrations do? Here is what I am listening to currently:
First, I listen to various subliminal videos for rapid manifestation. For example:
Afterward, I listen to these specifically while manifesting my girlfriend and I would like your opinion.
Do you have other ideas? Or is this fine? What should I focus on when listening? Is there a playlist you would be so kind as to provide me?
Otherwise, I just want to ask you about chanting namyo ho renge kyo and om / aum. What are your thoughts on chanting?
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I prefer to think in parallel realities, so you don't have to worry about her vibration but only about yours.
If you don't want to think in parallel realities: I think you don't have to match her vibration, you have to match the vibration of the relationship you want. So don't worry about how she vibrates. If you are vibrating on the frequency of a happy relationship with her, she has to join.
That´s exactly what I thought!!!
You and your desire have to vibrate in the same frequency. And your desire is your relationship!
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Sweet one, first thing before I answer your question. I have a baby sister who is autistic and I feel you can learn a lot from them. Her senses are really high but she is always smiling and laughing. I was also told that people with autism are highly intuitive.
Now your first question, if you are at a high vibration, she will soon follow if you send her loving energy and believe she already is in alignment with you. Your next question, she will forgive you and forget everything. If you forgive the situation and focus solely on the wonderful relationship you will have with her. It's all about staying in the vibration of the perfect relationship with her. I send you lots of love.
A King only bows down to his Queen.
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Thank you for your response, holistichealing! Question: If she is with another guy and she has pictures online that make it difficult to fully stop thinking about him, what do I do? I am trying to remove him and their pictures (which definitely spark negativity) entirely from my mind. How can I do this quickly and efficiently?
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