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I am on Day 4 I have been on limited contact. Yesterday I went to the Gym even went to a kick boxing class. Trying to spend more time with myself . I have been on a 2 day high I find myself visualizing all day and sending my self text messages as if it came from my Antonio. Last night at Bedtime he called again to let me know that he would be taking my IPad in for repair that was so nice I was smiling because I was hoping it was the call to tell me he was coming home. So I am doubling up now I am reading the secret , non stop miracles and I am constantly thinking of him to bring him home. I am trying my best to radiate this energy without saying it to him. I am truly like a school girl just typing this letter. My question is I know that he loves me. It just seems he is so stubborn he says it was the hardest thing for him to do was leave. So what the deal ,I want to ask so bad will you come back. What do you guys think.. I can feel his energy from 2 planets away I just can't judge it ..
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Anotnio's Wife wrote:
I am on Day 4 I have been on limited contact. Yesterday I went to the Gym even went to a kick boxing class. Trying to spend more time with myself . I have been on a 2 day high I find myself visualizing all day and sending my self text messages as if it came from my Antonio. Last night at Bedtime he called again to let me know that he would be taking my IPad in for repair that was so nice I was smiling because I was hoping it was the call to tell me he was coming home. So I am doubling up now I am reading the secret , non stop miracles and I am constantly thinking of him to bring him home. I am trying my best to radiate this energy without saying it to him. I am truly like a school girl just typing this letter. My question is I know that he loves me. It just seems he is so stubborn he says it was the hardest thing for him to do was leave. So what the deal ,I want to ask so bad will you come back. What do you guys think.. I can feel his energy from 2 planets away I just can't judge it ..
Don´t say he´s stubborn because you are radiating that energy and it will manifest. He needs time and you need time also. Do you want the relationship you had or do you want a whole new relationship with the same person? You have to realize that if you guys broke up, it was because something was broken... Now it´s time to fix it, and time and the universe will do that for you.
So, don´t say anything to him (about coming back), let the universe take care of things for you.
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Thank you Jim , Antonio is very strong willed and I do want a new relationship our old relationship is dead. I know the universe is going to deliver him to me . I just read some much I am getting so anxious for our reunion. Thank you for helping me through this.
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try not to be anxious as well. I have done a lot of reading here and most people say to not obess or be anxious. Just ask the universe and then let go, believe it will happen. Focus on taking care of you, obsess about something nice for yourself. Like being healthy. Or getting a new car.
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Thank you so much I have so many questions and I just don't want to sabotage myself . I read so much and look at so many video's and believe me I am learning so much about myself that I didn't even realize . The same way I attracted our break up . I will bring him back.
I really doo appreciate all the help and encouragement . It's all about me .
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Exactly like what everyone said!
Also, if you attracted the break up, you know you can easily attract him back
nothing is impossible! That's just how the law works.
sending you love and positive energy!
xoxo
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Jim Chien Beige wrote:
Anotnio's Wife wrote:
I am on Day 4 I have been on limited contact. Yesterday I went to the Gym even went to a kick boxing class. Trying to spend more time with myself . I have been on a 2 day high I find myself visualizing all day and sending my self text messages as if it came from my Antonio. Last night at Bedtime he called again to let me know that he would be taking my IPad in for repair that was so nice I was smiling because I was hoping it was the call to tell me he was coming home. So I am doubling up now I am reading the secret , non stop miracles and I am constantly thinking of him to bring him home. I am trying my best to radiate this energy without saying it to him. I am truly like a school girl just typing this letter. My question is I know that he loves me. It just seems he is so stubborn he says it was the hardest thing for him to do was leave. So what the deal ,I want to ask so bad will you come back. What do you guys think.. I can feel his energy from 2 planets away I just can't judge it ..
Don´t say he´s stubborn because you are radiating that energy and it will manifest. He needs time and you need time also. Do you want the relationship you had or do you want a whole new relationship with the same person? You have to realize that if you guys broke up, it was because something was broken... Now it´s time to fix it, and time and the universe will do that for you.
So, don´t say anything to him (about coming back), let the universe take care of things for you.
I agree that he isn't stubborn. YOU are stubborn because you are holding on to your vibration. I disagree that time and the universe will fix everything. Attracting him back is hard work. You have to work on your vibration (hard mental work) and to has to work on yourself to not lose him again.
After reading everything I could about LoA, watching videos all the time I came to the conclusion that it is a good idea to hold LoA plain and simple. Focus on what you want, feel the feelings of having it right now. Know that it is already there! That's it. That contains everything else. You can't feel bad when your focus is on your desired relationship. You can't feel attached if you know that it is already there. Stop trying to attract your ex back and start to be his magnificent girlfriend.
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You are exactly right . I am not stubborn at all though that's why I am learning the LOA and making it work for my good. I appreciate the advice.